So I learned that my girlfriend has been reading some kind of online stories that involve lesbians having sex together. They're these little skits about two girls randomly meeting each other in an an "adult novelty" store and end up kissing, testing ALL kinds of objects to get each other excited, and TOO much more with each other. She did tell me that she had read some "romance novel" type things but when I asked if they were odd, she said no, that they were a guy and a girl kissing. What do I do about this? What could be the problem...why would she want to read these? What should I think? I really need input on this, because it really is not a good feeling to know that your girlfriend has searched lesbian sex stories online. Input anyone? Thanks in advance!
2007-02-06 12:06:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, this is a serious relationship. No way I would want to try anything with any other girl, as would I want her to. I know she has kissed a girl before, but she had been drinking some, so...maybe this information helps. Thanks!
2007-02-06 12:18:04 · update #1
I have read one and it involved two girls using vibrators, etc! I can't deal with trying that, sorry. That one isn't an option, haha.
2007-02-06 12:53:35 · update #2
Give her some space--let her!
2007-02-06 12:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there's not much you can do, really. She's not cheating on you, just reading. A lot of people are curious about this stuff. Don't feel like you're the only one who's going thru this.
If you want, talk to her about it. It will be a hard subject to bring up and she may not tell you everything. But, it's best for her to figure this out before she makes a commitment to somebody.
If she's having such thoughts, there's nothing you can do, except let her find out who she is.
2007-02-06 12:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by deb 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd worry about it. Many, many straight women watch the L-Word, etc. Unless you see evidence otherwise (she's staring at the girl at the next table with a dreamy smile,) just chalk it up to curiousity.
As homosexuality becomes more and more mainstream, these questions and doubts will arise. But merely looking isn't doing. There's no reason to invade her privacy.
2007-02-06 12:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Spookable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her to let you read them. See how you feel afterwards. Then try some of the things that are mentioned in the stories.
2007-02-06 12:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by sassiecassie76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just curious. Id be worse if u found her in lesbian acts or pics where she was doing certain things. I think you should talk about it with her and ask her if that is what she is into or curious to try. Maybe its something u can both try together !
2007-02-06 12:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
just ask her straight up...nothing better to be honest
2007-02-06 12:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl07 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋