how can i stop caring what everyone thinks about me?

Answer 1

As long as you're happy with yourself and who you are as a human being you don't need to worry about what people think. Love yourself because no matter how hard you try there will always be those people who are never pleased. Be true to yourself and be happy in your own skin.

Answer 2

i notice that over break a few months ago that the only people i talked to from school were my closest friends, and those people who are wasteing their time thinking negative thing about me or anyone else just disappeared for those days off. and i realized that i don't need those people around me because they dont matter in my life so why should i care what they think. sure it would be nice if they would stop all mean and negative thoughts but for now i try my best to think of all the good things in my life, like my family and friends and it seem to work for me.

Answer 3

ugh, i remember when I was like that. a couple of years ago I was the most appearance-obsessed person in the world, and I would think everybody was watching me, testing me to see what kind of person I was, constantly. it was unnerving and super-uncomfortable.

i don't really know what happened, but this year i'm not like that anymore. i think the problem was that last year I was under a lot of stress because I'd just moved to a new school, and now that i'm used to it, it's okay.

but...
first: don't look at the mirror all the time. that makes you self-concious. and believe me, i used to be addicted to mirrors. every single shiny surface that ever existed was used as my personal mirror. i would check my hair, my face, sigh because i wasnt beautiful, and walk away feeling terrible. don't do that!!!! always tell yourself you are pretty (because you are! nobody is perfect!)

second: try not to think about your appearance for a a whole day straight. just pretend you have no face, just for the day, and pretend that nobody else does, too. this way you dont have to worry about how people are looking at you or anything (they're not really) and you are able to be your true self because you dont have anything nagging you. I think thats what I began to do.

third: look people straight in the eye. don't be afraid of what they might see in there!confident people are more attractive than people with low self-esteem. and i know this might sound fake to you (because really, you've heard it so many times) but it's really true. Laugh because you want to, smile, and dont compare yourself to others around you. Don't look in the mirror and think, "Oh this stupid nose!!!! I wish I had a supermodel gorgeous one" or anything like that. Look in the mirror and search for what others might envy in you. Sure, you may have a big nose, and thin lips, but your eyes might be the most gorgeous thing in the world.

Appreciate yourself for who you are, because there are more unfortunate people in the world.

And sorry this got really long--i hope you didnt get bored halfway through.

i hope this helps!

Answer 4

Usually it feels like it's you against them. Hundreds of people outnumber you and they got more people to judge you. The old saying :It doesn't matter what they think of you, it's what you think of yourself." or something like that. But it doesn't always work. Just try to be yourself. But if someone insults, criticizes, or puts down you then just take a deep breath and walk away. YOU should know that half the time people are lying. and they are probably lying about what they say about you. The best thing you could do is be the bigger person and don't say anything harmful back.

Answer 5

Well you probably can't complete keep from caring, but you can decide whether or not you are going to let it affect how you feel about yourself. What I found is that most people spend the majority of the time worrying about their own self (whether or not they should) so often times when you are worrying about what they think, they are probably doing the same about themselves. Everyone has things about themselves that they don't like. Even people who everyone else thinks are "perfect".

Answer 6

Remember that humans are moody. They can love you one minute, hate you the next. If you live your life caring what everyone else thinks, you'll be living moment to moment, trying to please everyone. Opinions can run hot then cold then hot again. Do you really want to live there?

Try thinking of worst-case scenarios. Maybe everything will go wrong. Maybe you'll look like a fool. Maybe people will laugh.

What then? Two days from now, most people will have forgotten what happened.

They'll be too busy worrying about what everyone thinks about them. We are all guilty of that sometimes. Please don't be afraid to just be yourself :).

Answer 7

Everyone cares what other people think about them. THe way they show it is what makes the difference, The only person that's opinion sould matter is your own.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

a little advise... u will always worry about what someone thinks of u. there is no cure for thinking that. the best advise that i can give is to just be as comfortable as u can be with urself. once u r comfortable with urself then u will feel better about urself and then u will not worry as much about what everyone else is thinking.

Answer 10

well for starters the people that judge you are really afraid of being judged, that's y they make fun of everyone else.
then you gotta think y do i care what they think
sure it can be hurtful but does it really matter?
the things they make fun of aren't really that important
i mean who cares if you dont have the coolest shoes or clothes
what matters is that you like who you are and trhats it