ok there is this boy we used to date now he is one of my friends !!!! all he does he flirt with me and i cant help but think about when we dated !!! i mena how do u tell him i just wana be friends
2007-02-06 12:01:02 · 7 answers · asked by emily v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a serious conversation with him, he can't read your mind. Let him know how you feel about the situation and explain to him your need to move on and wish that he'll understand. Good luck!!
2007-02-06 12:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by princessalex_ramirez89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately i think that when someone really likes you even when you have broken up you cant be friends. I've tried it twice and both times it really didn't work because they took everything i did or said that was nice, the wrong way. I even tried being friends with one a couple of years later and he still did the same thing.
2007-02-06 12:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by ljo_angel85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him just that. Don't let him play with your heart. Be open and honest or else you are leaving room for him to think that he has a chance, or what he is doing is ok.
Set boundaries and do it soon!
2007-02-06 12:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "Look Jake (I picked a name) I really want to be your friend so I would appreciate it if we can just be friends and do not flirt with eachother"
2007-02-06 12:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight up but u might wanna make sure your not leading him on even not meaning to u might be doin sumthin he see's as flirting even though u mean it as somethin completely different.
2007-02-06 12:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him 'you're one of my good friends.'
2007-02-06 12:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2007-02-06 12:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Canadiankid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋