This was our first day off work together. We planned to go shopping and then visit with his family. We went shopping, he went his way, I went mine. (Before we left home he started with the beer, things seemed ok) The store is huge and he claimed to try to find me. He didn't. After a bit and after trying to find him, I paid for my stuff and went out to the car. There is was, copping an attitude and drinking beer. The accusations started and of course I am the *****. He couldn't say anything nice about me. We went home. He took the car, even though he has lost his license to a DUI. Came back home and is trying to pretend like nothing has happened. Of course he stopped in at his place of work displaying an attitude. I'm sure that he didn't tell them that he destroyed our day due to drinking. I don't know for sure, but I feel that they think I upset him that is why he is angry. I have no desire to talk with him, I'm hurting. He's sleeping. I've had more than enough.
2007-02-06 12:00:46 · 3 answers · asked by Sherilynn B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think this kind of behaviour is worse with the drinking but its not all about the drinking too. He definately has serious issues and his drinking is just a way to get enough courage to bully you. You should really end that relationship and move on. He is going to have to work out his own problems, you will not be able to help with that and he wouldn't appreciate it anyway.
2007-02-06 12:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ giD∑■η ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you, I told my boyfriend that if he wants to drink he has to leave until he is sober. I told him that it is not allowed in my home and if he don't like it tell him to leave or you can leave.
2007-02-06 20:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Julie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your bags and leave him he needs a wake up call.
2007-02-07 23:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋