My boyfriend did not invite me to his birthday celebration with his family, but I have spent the holidays with them so it is nothing new or akward. I can't figure out why he would not want me to celbrate HIS birthday with them. What could be going on? (together almost a year, mid 20's)
2007-02-06 11:48:31 · 11 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he didn't want to be embarressd by his family my family is really embarrassing i would never invite my girlfriend to meet my parents or siblings
either that or its Family Only kind of thing
2007-02-06 11:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Blood_Child69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not an user-friendly one. i have completely been in this example. I wasn't on the fringe of my mom and she or he wasn't any solid to envision with, yet usually moms are exceptionally solid. So talk which includes your mom. tell your mom, a boy invited you over the following day and that you opt on to flow. Your mom will decide on to understand if his mothers and fathers will be residing house and likely a million different issues, yet talk which includes your mom. this can be an extremely solid element. And if she says no, then artwork something else out. Ask your mom what should be proper. per chance he ought to come on your position. you ought to ascertain believe which includes your mom so as that she wont freak out contained in the destiny.
2016-12-03 19:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by laranjeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you are going to know is to ask. It takes some major braveynessssss, but it will be best in the end. Either he fesses up that something is going on, or it gives you a chance to mention (ahhhemmm) that it would be great for him to consider you when he makes plans like this.
2007-02-06 11:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by artichoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a little weird especially since you have spent holidays with them. i think family holiday's are more intimate than b-day celebrations so why not invite for his b-day. i'd question him on this - something just isn't right.
2007-02-06 11:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was a family-only thing... my ex did the same thing 2 me, but it turns out, 100 kids were invited and I wasn;t and he was just a desperate bastard!
2007-02-06 11:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happened the last time you got with him and his family? maybe he's pulling away from you slowly? have he changed or started acting weird around you? have he been dropping hints or making remarks? I'd try to get to the bottom of this by asking him directly.
2007-02-06 11:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe a family member said something about you, and he doesn't want there to be conflict on his big day. he probably expected you to understand or move on more than his family would.
Talk to him about it. what is a relationship without communication?
2007-02-06 11:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the benefit of the doubt, first of all. He very well could have wanted to only spend it with his family.
Ask him. What will it hurt? You're his girlfriend.
2007-02-06 12:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound quite right does it? But he's the only one who can answer the question. Ask him. Ask it kindly and gently.
2007-02-06 11:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ask him why you weren't invited? has your relationship been troublesome lately? maybe he is slowly trying to move on. more info is needed to make an opinion. sorry i couldn't help more. :(
2007-02-06 11:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋