It was hard enough when I found out that my sister and my best friend liked the same guy. It's even harder now because I found out that he likes me! What do I do? I don't think I have feelings for him but I feel guilty just thinking about him!
2007-02-06 11:48:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do nothing. it isn't a problem as long as you don't like him.
2007-02-06 11:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you shouldn't feel guilty about thinking about him, but don't act on it yet. If you decide you do like him... u need to hold off bc he probably isn't worth you risking hurting not only your best friend but your sister as well. Wait until they move on to some other crush and then if he is around and you do like him then makybe see what happens. Although I would talk to them both to make SURE they are over him before moving in on him.
2007-02-06 19:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you dont even know if he likes you. You should try to find out first. If he does like you, tell him your not really interested, make it gentle though. Maybe even hint in that you know some people who like him. Dont lead him into thinking that you like him though, that would be even worse. Just do your best to let him know that you dont like him as a boyfriend. Good Luck
2007-02-06 19:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this mess but quick. Why even bother thinking about him, that is their problem. Move on to other things, you are too young to take this seriously. After a while everyone will move on. Chill out girl.
2007-02-06 19:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by esta g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang. that sucks. whatever you do, dont go out with him cuz then youll be alone. well youll have him but that doesnt really count. id advise all of you to move on as best as you can. this could end up being a tv drama waiting to happen
2007-02-06 19:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your thing but don't be arrogant about it.
If he asks you out, accept the invitation. Do NOT take your sister and best friend along.
2007-02-06 19:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i'm sry! well, if u dont wanna b w/ hm, then just be friends and suggest asking out either ur sis or friend lol but if u lyk him back, go 4 it! just tell ur friend and sis that ur not doing anything lyk kissn or they will b jealous!
2007-02-06 19:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Haley :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should live a normal life. HE loves you that is his problem and about your best friend and your sis. it's their problem also.
And if there is a relationship prblem say that you don't love him and it's their problem for loving :P
2007-02-06 19:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lan T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're not interested and maybe hint that you know girls who ARE interested. Gl!
2007-02-06 19:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by sowhatperson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stay out of it.
2007-02-06 19:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋