She is sooooo self centered!!!?

Question

I don't know what to do about this my friend. We never have a conversation that doesn't revolve around her. If I'm talking about a guy problem she'll interrupt and say "yea I have a similar problem bla bla bla". She only cares about herself and I can't deal with it anymore!

Answer 1

well you need to decide if you wish to remain her friend or not,,,, are there other things you do like about her? if so, and you wish to remain friends, then next time she interupts you, to talk about herself,,,,, say something like "wait, wait", loudly, then say,, "i am not finished yet",,,,, see if that works, if it doesnt, just have an honest talk with her about it,,,,,, its possible she doesnt realize how she comes across,,,,,, a sign of maturing is that we are able to tell people how we feel, how what they do makes us feel,,,, sometimes the relationships are able to work out, sometimes not,,,,,,, but a friendship shouldnt remain only onesided, you need to feel that you are important in it also

Answer 2

Hey Katie, The next time you're talking and she interrupts, just say "Please let me finish." Then after you finish say, "What is your opinion of my problem". If you do this every time, then eventually, she may become a listener. If not, maybe you should find someone else to share your thoughts with.

Answer 3

Make a 180 degrees turn every time you see her! Or better, pretend she doesn't even exist even she's in-front of you. Or walk-away when she's near.

Answer 4

i have a friend like that all i did was talk to her and if that doesn't work them she can be a her own friend:)

Answer 5

nothing will ever change your friend... find someone who deserves your time and attention