My boyfriend was murdered a year ago, and I just decided to move on with a guy who I thought was a good guy, one day we started moving to fast and he gave me oral sex(HE WENT DOWN ON ME,I DIDN'T DO HIM) anyway, he comes up missing for 2 weeks and then pops up saying he was arrested for possesion of marijaunna,even though I know he answered his phone and hung up once he realized it was me> I wanna believe him,but common sense keeps me froming doing. He seems so depressed,He calls from restricted numbers, I don't even know where he lives,hes only available at odd times he wont respond to my text messages. I just really wanna give him a chance, but the only time we have deep conversation is when talking about sex.Hes trying to get me to feel sorry for him so I can have sex with him...I want more from this man,in addition to sex but his constant begging for sex is a turn off! What can I do?
2007-02-06 11:45:00 · 4 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. You want more out of him and a relationship with him. Sadly, you are not going to get it. You can be dumb enough and let him between you and your Victorias but he will soon be gone and if he corks you up with a little one, he will be out of there like a ferret through the back fence. Appears to me the more you say "no" the more he makes it his mission to get you naked. I do not even think he has any real love for you or he would be going out of his way to spend time with you. You know how you create situations to be with one you really like. But he is not doing that. Don't waste anymore time. If you keep listening, you may fall under the spell and be just another notch in the gun belt.
2007-02-13 23:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy is into himself. if you want to be hurt, lied to, cheated on, ignored, by all means, go for him. BUT, like the other lady said, there's thousands of guys that will treat you right. if he wants sex so badly, let him go to 5 finger mary....
2007-02-14 03:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What more do you want? He's shown you all he wants is sex...now that you know this why would you disrespect yourself and keep messing around with him? You'll just end up hurt.
2007-02-14 00:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by princess b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about him.... there are 1000 of really good guys in this world... i always wonder why you girls are never interested in them...
2007-02-08 14:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by explosivegrey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋