Im 21 and in a lesbian relationship with a wonderful woman who i love, but lately i have been have very detailed sex dreams about men, and have been getting aroused when a mna friend is around. does this mean im straight?
2007-02-06 11:39:37 · 17 answers · asked by pimp_party_dance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 21 and in a lesbian relationship with a wonderful woman who i love, but lately i have been have very detailed sex dreams about men, and have been getting aroused when a mna friend is around. does this mean im straight?
i have been with men, we have dildos and strap ons, vibrators.
2007-02-06 12:50:09 · update #1
It's pretty normal to fantasize about things that you don't have in life, be it fame,wealth,etc.
Enjoy the dreams and don't worry about it. You'll figure it out on your own.
PS: fantasies are quite often better than the real thing.
Good luck.
2007-02-07 13:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a very good book called The Dream Game by psychologist Ann Faraday. One of her basic premises about dreams is that they are usually symbolic, and every person's symbols are specific to that person. So .. figure out what that guy symbolizes. If you feel nothing and don't find it pleasurable, my interpretation would be that it's confirmation that you are NOT sexually interested in men. Could this be a reaction to someone in your life insisting that you should try having sex with a man? Or does the man symbolize some sort of external entity, like a job or a boss? (Symbolically 'screwing you over'?) Read that book -- it gave me a lot of insight. And don't worry about the sex-with-a-man dream; I'd bet even money it has nothing to do with your orientation.
2016-05-24 01:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural for lesbians dream of men in a sexual way. It's not that you want to be with a man but because your hormones are changing. You female parts are telling you that you are in a stage where you could get pregnant very easily. I am a true stud lesbian with very little female thoughts other than that time of month. I have the same sex dreams usually at the end of the year. November and december. I say this because both of the times that I got pregnant I was sexually aroused around men even though I dress like them and think like them. Both times were at the end of november and the beginning of december. my first pregnacy was planned but my twins were not. The whole month of october i had that sex dream and was convinced by friends to try it again and again i became pregnant. To be honest i didn't even realize that my kids father had had sex with me thats how tense and afraid I was. hahahahahahaahaaaa good luck!
2007-02-14 10:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by pearlz38 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes I think you might have thought you were a lesbian but maybe you are not lesbian at all,maybe you are straight..or you could be bisexual....If possible you should find a male that you like and see how it goes,if you can be straight then it would be better for you and you would not have to deal with all the things that lesbians have to deal with,they ahave a very hard life and everybody still gives them bad looks and a lot of talk...If you were aroused by a man than it tells me that men do turn you on and I would really search out how i feel and find out for sure what I wanted..Its very possible you can love your g/f and still not be lesbien...
2007-02-06 12:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, as everyone else has crudely stated, you may be bisexual. However, this could easily just be a passing fancy. Just because you dream about something doesn't actually mean that you want it. Dreams are just dreams. You can go off of a bunch of b.s., but when it all boils down to it, it is just a dream. However, if you are overly concerned I would suggest using a dildo with your partner. If you want to take it a step further than that, you should consult your partner about bringing a man into the relationship to settle your emotional turmoil.
2007-02-06 11:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you are probably bi... well have you ever dated a man? if you haven't then like the person before me said, try a dildo... i would try it by myself. Put it in your vagina and see if that doesn't answer your question. Or you put one end in your vagina and have your parter with the other end in hers and maybe that would just solve your problems and everytime you have sex you would just use a dildo but if that doesnt work maybe you should try sex with a man. Or consider a vibrater.
2007-02-06 12:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by 2A06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your dreams are what you what to do in reality. Have you ever been with a man before? If no, maybe you should have a heterosexual experience (a date or more) to see if you feelings are real or just a dream.
2007-02-06 11:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't always dream about what you want or want to be, You can dream about a cow but that doesn't mean that you wanna be with one. Dreams mean something entirely different than real life.
2007-02-14 11:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means the dream weaver has a funny sense of humor.
2007-02-06 11:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
People change. Just give it time and you'll figure it out yourself. :)
2007-02-06 11:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋