I called a gal last week and we went out Friday and had a good time. We were making out big-time in the cab on the way home. She also came over last night and we were making out some more after watching a dvd together and drinking a bottle of wine.
Should I call her tonite? Or Wait? She's been calling/texting me every day (except tonite). Should I be going for more? I hope she doesn't think I'm gay or something for not trying to whip off her top. We've made out with my hands like everywhere. I'm 31 also and she's 27.
2007-02-06 11:30:45 · 7 answers · asked by CheckTheCoolWax 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm tired and don't want to hang out though
2007-02-06 11:40:02 · update #1
call her if you want to and do what feels natural to both of you when you are together.
2007-02-06 11:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by childofthefifties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 27 too. If i was in her shoes I would be waiting for you to call for a change. Every girl is different. Some girls maybe waiting for you to get in bed with some and others will respect the fact that your not pushing too far too soon.
I would take things slow it sounds like you guys are just starting off together. If you rush things with her you may regret it later. She will also give you subtle hint that she wants more.
2007-02-06 11:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by LOVELY LADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly go for more. Go as far as you can until she doesnt allow you to go any further. If she wants you to stop, just be cool with it and respect her decision because sooner or later, you will get there. This comes from personal experience in which I lost a girl because I wasnt coming on strong enough.
2007-02-06 11:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instinct?? What does it tell you?
Ever heard the phrase... distance makes the heart grow fonder??
Do you like being innundated with calls, texts, emails from the same person?
Whats nicer:
A lot of mediocre memories
OR
a sprinkling of totally amazing memories?
Follow your heart and you will find the right way.
2007-02-06 11:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by John D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her tonight! I don't think that she'll think your gay lol especially if you were kissing her. Ask if she wants to hang out. If you know her pretty well, maybe try to go a little further with her if you think it's right and you think shes ready. Good luck!
2007-02-06 11:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her... she definately knows you're not gay... but dont pressure her into anything that would make either of you uncomfortable... its better to take things slow...
good luck!
2007-02-06 11:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her ok ,, but if it 4 pleasure so not call
2007-02-06 11:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by miro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋