we are in highschool and the same age so there is no problem there. but i have a friend and she is also friends with him. im pretty sure she doesnt like him but i think he has some type of attraction to her. and sometimes i think she might like him. he will bring her up as a subject sometimes and it will be totally random and sometimes she will say "i love you to him" and she says it in a "joking" way, but sometimes it doesnt sound so jokingly. if im with one of them then the other one will ask where the other one is. our relationship has been less connected than it used to be. and i dont know if i should break up with him or not.... but i really like him. and also me and him never hang out but they are always together. what should i do? and is there anything going on between them? thanks
2007-02-06 11:27:45 · 10 answers · asked by <3iluvluv<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would get some new friends.. It sounds like they are attempting to deceive you..
2007-02-14 10:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...first of all...a LOT of this stuff goes on in High School....Hopefully you're not a Freshman and you have three more years of this to go through. (Hence the phrase "that's so high schoolish"...Don't worry about what's "going on" with them...if it was meant to be, it will be. Just move on and be a little "adult" about it (since you ARE considered a YOUNG ADULT) - which means not getting someone else QUICK to make him jealous. Sit him down one on one and tell him how you feel. If he acts childish about it, then so be it...YOU be the bigger person and just walk away. It's not the end of the world, although you probably feel as if it is at your age....When the RIGHT ONE comes before you, you'll certainly know. This one doesn't seem to be THE ONE....
2007-02-14 11:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask question that "dance" around the issue at hand, but don't ask questions that are directly associated with what you are wondering...you might get some answers there. Or if you just want to find out right away (they might not tell the truth thought) just ask one of them or both of them. If you don't like any of those responses or feel that he is lieing and/or has feelings for your friend...break up with him.
2007-02-06 11:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Spiffy T. Monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me and i broke up with my boyfriend and then 3 days later him and my best friend started going out. theyre still together a year later and i havent talked to either one since. stuff just happens, its high school. hopefully your friend is better than mine was and no matter if she does like him or not she wont hook up with him. your boyfriend wont come out and say he likes your friend, but when a girl suspects something, shes usually right. good luck
2007-02-06 11:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like trouble to me get out with your dignity. Try to keep your friend if you can .
2007-02-14 11:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Joan V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him go, gracefully. You deserve to be his one and only, wait for the one who feels that way for you.
2007-02-14 11:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by LJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never hurts to ask. ask your friend first. just tell her your concerns... then if she seems to be acting shady.. go to him.. don't jump down their thorats tho.. doing that you could lose two people that you really care about
2007-02-13 22:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur friend about it. but if they get together in the end...... be understanding dont lose ur friend over it
2007-02-14 11:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by DaZe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes ur bf? tell her to back off.
2007-02-14 11:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by W4rmS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they like each other. Move on and get another bf to make him jealouse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lets see how he feels
2007-02-06 11:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by James Dean Girl <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋