my boyfriend is very upset with me because i lied to him.
i didnt cheat on him, that wasnt the lie
i havent stood him up
its something really small... it sjust that..
for all the times he brought up the subject i kept lieing about it
until one day i blurted it all out... so there it is
he's letting me see him tomorrow to talk to himabout it
he wants me to prove, to make him believe, that i care about him
whats some things i could do to make him believe me?
because i love him and care so much aboyt him
he wont let me kiss him nor hold him
because he doesnt know if he still wants me or not
but i want him back
what can i do.... what can i do...
2007-02-06 11:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though you think it was a small lie, it was repeated, so he knows that you meant to lie to him over and over again. The fact that you lied is going to be really hard to get over because lying destroys trust and without trust, the relationship is nothing. The only thing you can tell him is that you love him. Tell him how you feel and how sorry you are for lying. Let him know that it won't happen again. Tell him that you know right now he doesn't trust what you say because you've already lied to him. Then tell him that you know it's going to take some time to build that trust back up, but you are willing to do whatever you have to do to repair the damage that you caused because you love him and can't imagine your life without him.
2007-02-06 11:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by mrb1017 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
same question, same answer:
Jump through hoops like a circus poodle!
Seriously- if you made a mistake and have apologized for it, don't start jumping through hoops to "prove" anything. You can't make people think, feel, or believe anything. He sounds like he's acting like a littler twerp. Either he can forgive you or he can dump you- but tell him to stop messing around.
2007-02-06 19:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you wouldn't have lied to cover it if you didn't love him. Tell him that you just didn't want to see him unhappy. Tell him that you love him and wouldn't ever want to see him unhappy. Get him a small gift or something to show him that you're thinking of him and that you do care! Good luck!
2007-02-06 19:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For all that, you didn't say what you lied, and that is the biggest thing. How can we tell you if what to do if we don't know the big part.
2007-02-06 19:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him your letting him be singel for a while and if he starts calling you and wanting to talk to you then there you won him over
try it!!! or you can tell him that you dont know what to say and thank him for letting him see you and just walk away and if he trys to stop you then liston to him
2007-02-06 19:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by James Dean Girl <3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So much drama now, so what will the future hold between you two?
2007-02-06 19:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him what is more important the lie or your relationship???
that will give him pause for thought and maybe you can resolve this problem --- dont give up --- best wishes
2007-02-06 19:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
come over with red eyes.
when you see him say "im sorry"
let is out. CRY [dont me overdramatic or loud] more of a silent cry
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2007-02-06 19:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by jpstar30 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
forget it, your a liar! no matter how many times you change the question! you hurt him!
2007-02-06 19:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is that a translation from a chinese relationship
2007-02-06 19:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by max h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋