Should I be a man or is it time to ramble on? I'm 30 years old by the way.
2007-02-06 11:23:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
You are a man by asking for advice and trying to deal with a difficult decision. I think you should try to get to know this child first and not just throw yourself into her life as her "father". You have seven years to make up and it should take some time to build a relationship. I think it would be confusing for a child to just have a dad one day so that's why I suggest taking it slow.
2007-02-06 12:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Polynomial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even asking this question? Go meet your baby girl. She needs a man in her life now more than ever. Unless you want to hear from her in 10 years about how she became a prostitute and will do anything, "ANYTHING" for attention from a man. Step up and own your actions. If you are not around, she will grow up craving attention from men, and that will turn ugly. "Should I be a man?" Really, do you want to be known as a baby boy for the rest of your life? Or would you like to see yourself in the shoes of someone who calls himself a man. Silly question. Just do it. Do the right thing. You know what that is.
2007-02-06 20:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God's sake! Dude you said you are 30 years old?! So act like that and take some responsibility and at least establish some contact...I don't say go and life with her, but at least be a father to her...okay there might be some questions about your absence but be honest to her, she'll be grateful.
All the very best to the both of you
2007-02-07 09:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cherish the moment. You have a daughter you never knew about. Think of all the positive that can come of this. Although it may be hard to adjust your lifestyles, having a child in your life is well worth it.
Congratulations to the both of you.
2007-02-06 19:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a man is always the best solution for everything. Once you except it you might like being a dad.
2007-02-10 18:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by supercalifragilisticexpialidocio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STEP UP AND BE A MAN. It's NEVER 2 late to fix things...she needs you so be there for your child. I wish you the best...
2007-02-06 21:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by MrS.WilSoN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up and take responsibility. Pay child support and get visitation rights. It isnt too late to establish a relationship with her and be her dad.
2007-02-06 19:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man spend some time with your daughter. take her to the park or the zoo or the mall, or the beach or you get the picture i hope.
2007-02-06 20:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and take responsibility so you can grow and bond with your daughter.
2007-02-06 19:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Momma-Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man :)
Your daughter might be looking for you.
2007-02-06 19:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋