Hi, me and my finacee have been together for 3.5 years and are to be married in a month. We have had our ups and downs but the last year has been hell. She moved away for a job and ended up sleeping with her boss and breaking up with me. Two weeks later we got back together and got engaged 3 months later. Recently I found out she cheated with him right after we got back together and another time when while engaged. She says she is sorry and is willing to do anything...but a lot of this information I have had to purge from her through months of suspicions and questioning. She says her relapse was due to me being upset and having rollercoaster feelings...not knowing if we were going to break up. Am I insane to continue with the marriage as it is only 1 month away?
2007-02-06 11:20:54 · 10 answers · asked by David 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT GET MARRIED. The fact that she cheated repeated times does not speak well for her. Once a repeat offender, always a repeat offender. And as for her saying it was bc she was upset about the unknown feelings... well someone who truly loved another person would talk to that person PRIOR to cheating. I am telling you man, call that sh!t off bc if she has already cheated a few times it won't be the last time she cheats.
Sorry, that totally blows but you deserve someone who will be faithfl to you regardless of their own insecurities.
2007-02-06 11:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are insane to marry a woman who f*cked her boss when she was engaged to be married. She's a liar, a cheater, and has the gall to blame you for her choice to do another man!
Is this really the woman of your dreams, one you love, trust, admire, respect, and want for the mother of your children? She sounds like a skanky ho-bag to me. But some men like cheating ho-bags.
2007-02-06 19:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! GET OUT NOW and don't look back!
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Getting married to her will be the most stupid thing you've ever done, well second stupidest thing. The first one was getting back with her after the fact that you found out she went back to him!
2007-02-06 19:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HER YOU DUMB@$$, then make the trip down or up where she is , find her boss beat his @$$ (don't kill him) when your done kicking the $hit out of him tell him why you did it, it will make your cheating $lut of a girlfriend feel worse. don't hit her even though she deserves it.
DO NOT MARRY THIS HO, ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT, you are a stupid f-u-c-k if you do.
2007-02-06 19:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely
marriage will be a HUGE mistake.
geeze you two arent even married and she cant keep her hands off another man
thats crap
and you DONT deserve that for a wife
good luck to you
its a big step, but i promise it will be worth it
2007-02-06 19:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would never get back with somone how has cheated on me. That is what i think,
2007-02-06 19:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are insane. if she did it once, ok. but she did more and blamed you. run, run, run away. don't look back.
2007-02-06 19:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are insane srry man
2007-02-06 19:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by James Dean Girl <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away fast. later will be too late.
2007-02-06 19:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it ,you will be sorry! she will keep hurting you!
2007-02-06 19:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋