So here the details. Decide to use Yahoo Personals. Was very careful and selective. Exchanged a few emails with a very nice girl. We started to IM. This went great and we chatted for hours online. Then about a dozen phone calls -- also very nice and enjoyable. Finally meet. Date was delightful. Amazing goodnight kiss. She called to let me know she got home safe that evening -- everything is still fine.
Then BAM.
She felt we had no chemistry. Is there something I'm missing? Is this the new face of dating? What did I do?
2007-02-06 11:19:56 · 8 answers · asked by Andy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you did nothing wrong --- it happens --- chalk it up to experience and move on --- it has happened to me as well
2007-02-06 11:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
I feel that has happened to me many times and I used to think if it was something wrong with me but then I met someone online, we went on a date and things were ging really well and all but this time I didn't feel it, not her. As much funas we were having I could tell she just wasn't for me. So as much as it sucks, these things happen. Just keep meeting new people!
2007-02-06 11:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by someonehasalreadychosenthisname1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have been talking to other men online that she also met through the personals. i used to do those and it seemed that the people that i talked to tended to get to know multiple women so they can kind of pick and choose.
2007-02-06 11:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. She probably just wasn't attracted to you. No fault of yours.
2007-02-06 11:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going out with her a couple more times, if she will. Maybe she met someone after you and wants to see where it goes.
2007-02-06 11:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by LW 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry, I guess she just wasn't in to you. there are more fish in the see pal. Go ahead and swim, lol
2007-02-06 11:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cant force chemistry....
that something that is there 'bam' or not 'ba bing"
2007-02-06 11:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the kiss must've been amazing for you but not for her. I dunno. I can't explain women.
2007-02-06 11:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋