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Question

my boyfriend is very upset with me because i lied to him.
he's letting me see him tomorrow to talk to himabout it
he wants me to prove, to make him believe, that i care about him
whats some things i could do to make him believe me?
because i love him and care so much aboyt him

he wont let me kiss him nor hold him
because he doesnt know if he still wants me or not
but i want him back
what can i do.... what can i do...

Answer 1

Try being completely honest with him...tell him why you lied to him. Make sure and tell him just how much he means to you. Remind him of the great times you had together and maybe how stood by him when he was going through something rough in his life. Sit him down face to face look through his eyes, make a soul to soul connection. If he can't see that kind of love then he is an idiot and you should find someone who deserves you.

Answer 2

Something about your question kind of creeps me out. He wants you to prove yourself to him? How? Begging? Cutting yourself? Oral sex? It sounds like he is holding this over your head to extract things from you... unless he will express what he wants, then he's a jerk who is emotionally blackmailing you and you should dump him.

All you have an obligation or ability to do in this situation is:
1. Apologize. Be sincere and assuring
2. Don't do it again.
3. Let him choose if he can continue the relationship

Anything other than that is just gravy.

Answer 3

Sorry, sweetie, but there's no magical solution for that problem. There's no instant way to repair broken relationships with anyone, not just your boyfriend. Just be totally honest with him tomorrow, tell him what made you lie to him and how miserable it made you feel, and promise never to do that again (and keep the promise, of course). And hope for the best! Good luck!

Answer 4

It really depends on what the lie was, was it a real whopper, or were you cheating? If you were cheating, he has a good reason not to trust you, if the lie was about something else, be prepared to explain why you felt the need to lie. If you want better answers, you will have to explain more, like what was the lie & situation,.

Answer 5

Be honest, 100%, and anything you have been holding back, let go. Tell it all. If he still goes his separate way, you will know that you ended things honorably and did the best you could to fix the problem. But he may be impressed enough by your candor to give you another chance.

Answer 6

Put all your feelinbg into a letter that way your not on the spot and it's eaiser to say what in your heart when you alone this way you can tell him everything you want to say and by putting the time in to writing a letter with show him you care

Answer 7

Its according to what the lie was about! If he really wants to be with you and if he really loves you it will work out! Ive been through that before and it doesn't feel good at all! Give it your all and if he cant accept that just know that you tried to make it work!

Answer 8

Jump through hoops like a circus poodle!
Seriously- if you made a mistake and have apologized for it, don't start jumping through hoops to "prove" anything. You can't make people think, feel, or believe anything. He sounds like he's acting like a littler twerp. Either he can forgive you or he can dump you- but tell him to stop messing around.

Answer 9

Try Flirting wit him. It sounds like you have a major problem, and it has happened to me, too! But all i did was show him that i am VERY sorry, so i baked him cookies saying 'I AM SORRY' in small letters. And i talked to him and flirted with him!
Good Luck!

Answer 10

First of all, what did you lie about? Second of all, lying will usually get you in deep trouble. Stick with the truth.