i met this girl a few months ago and we were working toward a relationship. We went out a few times and she said she's not ready. She really meant i wasn't her type but she didn't want to let me down hard. I bugged her about giving me another chance for about a week...texting her and talking to her online. She called me a stalker and banned me from her myspace page and stuff. Now i feel really bad cause i didn't ever want to hurt her and now she don't want no part of me. I don't want her to think i am crazy. Help!!!
2007-02-06 10:56:49 · 17 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry dude, u just need to avoid her because contacting her now will just make things worse, so walk away with your pride while u still have a chance.
2007-02-06 11:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a really sweet person. And going after this girl WAS the right thing to do. It shows how much you care. Sounds like you are serious about her..... Dont give up just yet. The two of you are just not on the same page yet is probably all it is... Go out and buy her an awesome cup of coffee ( the ones that comes with the choc covered bean) A White Rose and a romantic hallmark card. Leave n her desk at work. maybe say something like " I miss your voice...."
It just sounds to me like she got cold feet...Maybe you were going a bit too fast for her. She sounds old fashioned.. be patient . but its up to you, I dont have all the facts....
2007-02-06 19:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by titiatoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough man, I understand. You dig a girl and she doesn't dig you and you try to stay in touch. But when a girl says no, it means no. The best thing you can do now is to just go away, don't talk to her or do anything. If she wants to get back involved with you she will come to you. Just move on. I know it hurts but that's what it's going to take.
2007-02-06 19:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though it is too late. If a woman asks to be given space, you have to do exactly that. For future reference I would advise that you don't do all the running - sometimes it is a good idea to hang fire and wait for the other person to contact you rather than instigating contact with them all the time.
2007-02-06 19:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probaly just came on to strong and to fast. Give her some time---leave her alone. If she told you she wasnt ready you should have just given her space.
2007-02-06 19:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone. obviously that's what she wants if she called you a stalker so that's basically all you can do anyways.
2007-02-06 19:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by I love Mirra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to improve that you are not crazy for her to leave her and find another one
2007-02-06 19:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ravioli man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy is doing the same thing 2 me. just let her go. i know how she feels
2007-02-06 19:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by nvillarreal07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what she thinks, but you do sound a little weird. Please leave her alone and try not to be so aggressive. let nature take it's course
2007-02-06 19:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her so space to figure out what she want to do
2007-02-06 19:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by lisa_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋