My b/f left me about 1 month ago and i moved on, met up with old friend got out and bout and i was happy being single. Now he is begging me to take him back. I love my single life now and i told him no but i can't stop thinking mabye i should go back why? i don't think i want to but i just can't get him out of my head. HELP!!
2007-02-06 10:51:04 · 12 answers · asked by k_lollie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love your single life, then don't take him back or take him back partially, like date him and make it clear it isn't exclusive.
2007-02-06 10:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're happy being single, stay that way. you can always date but keep it open. I'm in a relationship and i know what you're thinking. Honestly, enjoy your time apart, experience life on your own and dont go back to him unless you can't be without him.
Besides, as most of us know, once someone is in a relationship they tend to close out their friends... Spend some time with your girls and enjoy the single life. If he's still having around after a couple months, then reconsider it. At this point, he might just be lonely.
good luck
2007-02-06 18:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by jwharton3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take some time to think about what u really want, chances are ur only thinkin bout him cause he popped back into ur life so if u realy think u dont want him back then tell him that
2007-02-06 18:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if you like being single, then don't go back! It doesn't matter how he feels. The only important thing is about you! Chose what is best for yourself and not what is best for him! Think about it, if you go back to not being single, you will not have as much fun as you are now! If you like being single don't go back to not being single!
2007-02-06 18:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Alaina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you need to consider getting back with him.....then take it slow. Dont just jump back into the same thing. Date occasionally and dont dedicate all your time to him like you did before the split.
If he honestly wants to work it out, then he will be fine with it. If he has a problem with the whole dating thing......then forget him. He isnt considering your feelings in the matter. Afterall, hes the one who left you and screwed up right?
Let him work for it.
Good luck hun.
2007-02-06 18:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think why you broke up - if the reason was a good one, then you'd be foolish to get back together with him. Move on and left him in the past where he belongs!
2007-02-06 18:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cared about him when you were going out so that would be the source of your doubt and the reason you cant stop thinking about him. i strongly suggest that you put your self first. ^^
your happy where you are in life and you need to tell him this. you could try explaining to him that you'd rather just be friends.
2007-02-06 19:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by booboaba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does your heart tell u? if you are having doubts maybe you are better off being single. and the fact that you were over him mean alot. well done for getting that far and make sure you do what u really want b4 jumping into anything. follow your gut instinct
2007-02-06 18:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by ciara_e2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dumped u say NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
A BOY SHOULD ONLY HAVE ONE CHANCE
he was a jerk for dumping u !!!!!!!!!!!
get a diffrent guy move on forget him think of someone else
2007-02-06 18:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by danielle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think long.. think wrong! If you have to think about it, in your heart it is no!! Good luck! Be strong!!
2007-02-06 18:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋