how 2 b outgoing?

Question

well every1 tells me 2 b outgoing i really dont know how 2 b outgoing what dose it mean anyways?

Answer 1

just be yourself! Be energetic and happy, and enthusiastic. Go out and do stuff you normally wouldn't do (not bad stuff, but like bowling...invite everyone out bowling) just be the life of the party. But you know what, you don't have to be anything your not...only do this if YOU want to , not because other people are telling you to! Its ok to be shy or quiet, just be YOU

Answer 2

outgoing is a matter of how comfortable you feel with yourself. Sociable and responsive to others; friendly: a warm, outgoing personality. The less you care about what others say the more open and "outgoing" you will be. You wont be afraid or take things personal, just dont be mean.

Answer 3

Outgoing means the opposite of shy.

If you want to be more outgoing there are many good tips:

1. Spend more time with people in the first place.

2. Go places where people hang out but NOT loud (club) or ultra quiet (library). Try a bookstore after a poetry reading, a farmers market, a local extension class, or some kind of interest group.

3. Approach people more. Just go up and say hi. If you are very nervous be sure to not just ask yes/no questions. Say obvious things, it is okay, like How come you came here? What do you like about this music? Do not say do you like this because they will say yes or no and then you are stuck again.

4. Take the attitude that you just want to meet people. Don't worry about who you are, how you look, romance.

5. Go places - and yeah this sounds weird- where there is LESS expextation to perform!! Maybe a church book reading group or a punk rockers swap meet or a once a week exercise class at the local college for people with injuries who want to learn to swim.

6. Ask people what they are interested in.

7. Prepare 1-2 short olite answers for things that stress you out. E.G. What do you do for a living? etc. I sometimes tell people "I do al ot of different things! You'll have to get to know me better!"

8. You do not want to be judged on superficial things so do not do that to others.

9. If you are out and about at an activity and see somebody ELSE who looks a bit lonerly or nervous, go make friends! Just chat!

10. Don't spend your whole lfie on the Internet, get out and meet real people.

11. Do something for somebody else. Call your local or online volunteer center, really, it is one of the best ways to BECOME outgoing. You can visit seniors or help dogs or fold clothes at the thrift store but believe me, you will have to put yourself out there. It takes initiativebut is very rewarding.

12. MOST OF ALL: Be interested in the other person. Ask them what they like. Ask follow up questions. Admire them for things they like and ask them about the details. Or ask them what was their experience of college or travel oiverseas! People love to talk about themselves. The secret to making more friends and being more outgoing is to sincerely be interested in getting to know them and stop worrying about yourself!

Good luck!

Answer 4

When you are in a group, walk around and talk to people - ask them open ended questions (questions they can not answer yes or no to), and carry it from there. After a few minutes, go and talk to another person. Learn some good jokes - nice and funny ones - look on the internet if you must. Smile a lot!

Answer 5

well, I used to be the biggest introvert too. But, the only way to be outgoing is to talk. That is the most important thing to do. To talk. If you can talk, you are an outgoing person.

Answer 6

Pick up a bike and go outside, get the dog and go for a walk, call a friend to play tennis, invite mom to the gym, call friends to go clubbing, call a good friend and go shopping, take the family to a roadtrip, invite a lover on a getaway, sit and read at a coffeeshop, jog outside, go to the salon, spa, get a massage, get nails done, volunteer, and many more. It gives you enough things to talk about and open up to.

Answer 7

outgoing just means u like to do a lot of things umm well kind of i really dont know how to explain it but to be outgoing try joing volleyball team or trying out for drama club or soething like that

Answer 8

im a really outgoing person outgoin means basically like ur not afraid of who u r and ur cofident and u could walk up to a random person and say anything u wanted to them and ull yell scream and be hyper u do what u want and enjoy life that how i put it

Answer 9

you don't have to be outgoing
god don't listen to what other peop;e tell u to be like
if your not outgoing you can't become outgoing
u can pretend to be outgoing but then you wouldn't be yourself

Answer 10

outgoing = friendly... when your in a social settign mill around, don't stick with one specific group of people... find someone talkin about something you enjoy or know about and join in the conversation... just be yourself.