had sex with his platonic friends..and it is a long distance relationship?
He says he would rather have sex w/ friends b/c he knows where they have been..I am very turned off by this and can't really respect him..and it makes me nervous that I don't know what he's doing I'm 2000 miles away..I wish I could just get over this guy. But would you be trusting in this position??
2007-02-06 10:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by goldengirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I would not! Especially if it is a long distance relationship! Also does he still hook up with these bed buddies??? And since they are just friends and does not see it as a "threat" to your so called relationship he will be more inclined to just say hey I'm horny I think I'll hook up with so and so and not feel like he has really gone outside the relationship since they are just "friends". Then you gotta meet these skanks one day and question whether this is one of his bootie call / friend w/ benefits. Dump him cuz he's hump'n !!!!
2007-02-06 10:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by devilishdame1974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't date him, because if he is sleeping with them, then they're not platonic. Platonic means no touching, kissing, etc. So he's shady. Either he's a hypocrite and has no problem sleeping with friends, or he's a liar and trying to b.s. you about the people that he sleeps with.
2007-02-06 18:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to take other things into consideration. But I would not trust anyone I couldn't hit over the head when I need to...
2007-02-06 18:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it does not sound very good im afraid --- im in a long distance relationship (15,000 km plus) and i have no interest in any other lady ---- yes trust is important and he is letting you know you just must query his commitment to you ---- my best wishes to you
2007-02-06 18:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LastWomanDancing: No way, dump the loser.
LastManDancing: I like this guy's style but you should can him, or at least have a "good time" while he's away.
2007-02-06 18:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a ring and propose right now, it don't get any better then this. What more could you possibly want?
2007-02-06 18:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I AM SORRY TO SAY THIS, BUT GET OVER HIM! HE'S FREAKIN DISGUSTIN!
2007-02-06 18:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by phantomdream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Leave him
2007-02-06 18:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Crazie4Cops 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, not at all, you cant trust him. sorry!!
2007-02-06 18:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
2007-02-06 18:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Danny S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋