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i'm average height, slimmish, avearge looking, long brown/blonde hair, grey eyes. I've never had a proper boyfriend or been kissed properly. i'm a nice person, kind, i have a lot of friends [both girls and a few guys] i've been told i'm funny. i can be shy. i'm nearly 17. what is wrong with me??? why can't a find a boyfriend?? nearly everyone i know has a boyfriend. why can't i have 1 too? i'm not trying to come across as spoilt or anything and i don't want to sound like a whingy little kid, but i don't see why i can't have what so many other people have =[

2007-02-06 10:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by ~abbey-rose~ 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Wait, and your time will come

2007-02-06 10:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Coley 2 · 0 0

dont worry abt it soooo much! if u dont hook up in highschool then for sure when u go to college theres gonna be way more dudes for you. they'll be coming to u in droves... dont let it get to your head when that happens cuz ur friends will notice and may not like/approve of your new attitude in general. always make time for ur friends even when u get a boyfriend cuz they'll hold it against u... guys are different they understand when theyre buddy is hooked up so they wont hold it against them.... dont be in such a rush for a guy. remember its up to u to pick the right one. pick a nice guy... smart, funny, doesnt have a temper and not selfish. these are traits that will make a long lasting relationship for u. u dont want to bounce from one bad relationship to another. the bad boy image is attractive but in the end your gonna end up regretting it.....
good luck........ hope this helped

2007-02-06 10:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rich K 1 · 0 0

lol wow, you sound kinda like me

im 16 and havn't been kissed yet either haha
i feel your pain, but my friend always tells me that i will find the right guy soon so don;t worry and w/e lol

but i dunno,
alot guys tell me that im cute/ hot but i havn't really had a b/f
just havnt found a guy yet, lol but alot of guys are also shy to ask girls out (and so are most of us haha) so i think that maybe we should step up and tell a guy that we think is cute that thier cute, and see what they say

..hey, maybe they'll ask you out and you'll finally get you first kiss :)
lol


goodluck<3

2007-02-06 10:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Panda 2 · 0 0

Either you've set your standards in a boyfriend way too high - or you're lacking confidence (probably both). Trust me, there are lots of guys in your school or community your age who are probably feeling the same way (about not being in a relationship). Have you spent time getting to know guys who aren't uber-popular or football jocks? There are some real winners who probably lack confidence themselves and are waiting for someone to find them.

2007-02-06 10:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jeffrey 2 · 0 1

Don't worry about..I was almost 18 when I was kissed, and I'm attractive. I have friends in college that haven't been kissed, and no I don't go to some prude Baptist college, I go to Texas Tech. So don't sweat it, and don't rush it...it should be special

2007-02-06 10:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0 0

nothing is wrong with you, u just dont act sluttish to attract guys(which is what most guys are used to in highschool), meh your time will come. good luck

2007-02-06 10:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by xxx P 3 · 0 0

I think there's a new reality show starting with people like you. You might want to audition.
Good luck.

2007-02-06 10:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

dont rush love. mr.right will come sooner or later.

2007-02-06 10:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dont worry...ur turn will come someday

2007-02-06 10:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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