ok, there's this guy who i've never met, and we were talking on the phone last nite. i'm suppose to meet him, but he's expecting that we are gonna do more than talk. i'm very unexperienced, and only 14. he's 21, and i can't say no now that we have plans! (he no's how old i am)
2007-02-06 10:28:38 · 27 answers · asked by Samantha Marie <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say TALK for now...considering the age difference, you are "jailbait". Since you are young and still growing up, you will experience many changes and things in your life, when he may be considering marriage and children soon. Just talk to him. What does he want out of this? If it's just to get with you, I would say get out!
2007-02-06 10:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Coley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is JACKED up! If a guy is talking to you with that big of an age gap it means a few things....A. He is a looser with women his own age, so why would you want his broke ***. B. He is a pedophile because you are too young for a serious relationship or becoming more experienced. C. why grow up faster then you have to? Looking back on my life, I did things way to fast and with guys a lot older, now I know better and I really regret what I did in the past. Be the more mature person and let him know you are not interested and don't spoil yourself for a douche like that.
2016-05-24 00:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is JACKED up! If a guy is talking to you with that big of an age gap it means a few things....A. He is a looser with women his own age, so why would you want his broke ***. B. He is a pedophile because you are too young for a serious relationship or becoming more experienced. C. why grow up faster then you have to? Looking back on my life, I did things way to fast and with guys a lot older, now I know better and I really regret what I did in the past. Be the more mature person and let him know you are not interested and don't spoil yourself for a douche like that.
2007-02-06 10:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tbone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you got more than boy problems. If he's 21, he knows your 14 and is expecting sex from you - he's got issues.
I'd stand him up, or show up with an older friend.
You don't need any part of a guy like this.
2007-02-06 10:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jeffrey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
omg you have got to be kidding my *** off that guy could be like 43 rape you and then kill you
your not sure and so nothing needs to happen!!!
please im like begging you NOT to do it im 14 too and i would NEVER do anything as crazy as that
even if you think your positive that he is telling the truth and you have seen so called "pictures" of him doesnt mean a single thing
ive been in "what i think" the same position as you and i really think that you should cancel and tell someone like your parents
in the end what really matters is your safety
2007-02-06 10:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Milk shake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT!! I'm telling your Momma!
He's a pedophile!
You DO know that's illegal right?!?
Say no now! and save yourself emotional hearache.
Please make a mature decision not to give into this guy--he is not concerned about your feelings...
You can back out. If you are afraid of making him mad (which you shouldn't) Just say something very important came up and you can't make it. He doesn't have to know any more than that. You do not owe him anything. ....Then DO NOT reschedule....stand up for yourself.
2007-02-06 10:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omgosh that is very very illegal. i hope you planned on meeting in a public place because if not take a friend. Yea you may like the guy but are you willing to get raped or worst if you dont?
2007-02-06 10:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by kaybee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uhhh......what would a 21 year old want with a 14 year old? He's a pedophile....
2007-02-06 10:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt go. if hes expecting more then talking from a 14 year old, hes probably a pervert.
2007-02-06 10:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
14 and 21? That illegal. You don't know him. Your going to get kidnapped or get killed if you go. His probably a perv dating an age like you
2007-02-06 10:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋