Theres this guy who really likes me but I dont like him.Im scared to break up with im and I dont know how.We went out on a couple of dates and became a couple.The spark isnt there anymore and I want to break up.Got any tips?(hes really senstive/nice)
2007-02-06 10:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by Sasha C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just don't lie to him, yes the truth will hurt, but just be honest. It will help in the long run rather then having him always wondering why you don't like him, plus he just might keep coming back to you if he thinks there is always a chance.
2007-02-06 10:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by yaabro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it quick, short and simple. Meet him or coffee or whatever in a neutral place and tell him. Just tell him that your feelings have changed etc....and the relationship isn't really working for you. Don't get drawn into a long discussion, details - it won't help anything at all . Short and simple, a clean break. There is no one not to hurt him, but this is the best way.
2007-02-06 10:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww...I understand. He's going to be hurt. There's sadly no way around that. But just be kind and honest about it. Don't drag it out. Tell him that you really did like him, but you realize now that you see him as only a friend. Don't let him get the idea that you will like him again later, because then he will be hurt when "later" never comes.
I wish you the best. That's a tough one.
2007-02-06 10:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by surfchika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you wait the harder it will be.
If you really don't like him you need to tell him your honest feelings, or your just going to hurt him worse. The sooner you break it off, the sooner he can get over it and move on.
2007-02-06 10:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start saying things and behaving the ways he does not like in a girl.Be gradual and dont be abrupt in this.He will break off himself.
2007-02-06 10:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-06 10:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel
2007-02-06 10:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Grog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋