Well my bf asked me if I was ready to sleep with him and he was not preassuring me, but I am nervous! I love him a lot, but not sure if I am ready! HELP!
2007-02-06 10:06:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've just said you were nervous and not sure of it.
So you've simply answered your own question.
YOU'RE NOT READY.
2007-02-06 10:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ Tony's girl ♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into it because your friends say so. It isn't really any of their business. That fact that your asking this question shows that you aren't ready. Plus you haven't said that either you or your boyfriend want to have sex. Keep your relationship between the two of you! I personally, am still a virgin but I know that some of my friends have regrets about losing it. So make sure you are happy with your choice. Most girls feel bad about their bodies but I'm sure your boyfriend finds you attractive even if you don't. Letting a guy see your body is terrifying but knowing that he wants to see you kind of makes up for it and makes it exciting. It's difficult, but try not to worry about your appearance too much (like that's even possible)! I hope I've put your mind at ease. Just remember: it's your body and your choice. :)
2016-05-24 00:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I am a teenager and I was just in a relationship where the guy wanted me like REALLY bad to sleep wit him but I didnt! THANK YOU JESUS! I really dont think you should but thats my opinion! But think about some of these things that I thought about: 1. does he REALLY love you?
2. How do you know?
3. Are you ready to take care of a baby?? Even if you do use protection you NEVER know!
4. And if youre a teenager than are you ready to tell yo parents if you get pregnant?
Yeah I know yo parents will not be very happy if you come home pregnant. So i think you shouldnt. But if you wanna go head. If you were an adult I'd say go on and do it cuz youre an adult and you aint gotta have parents to tell you if you can tget pregnant.
2007-02-06 10:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by coconc93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when the time comes.. You will surely know when you're ready. If you're questioning yourself until now, you're not ready. Just because he tells you he loves you or you love him a lot doesn't mean you have to give it to him. You will always be nervous no matter what age you are. Being ready means you have no questions or doubts. I lost mine at a very young age but I knew I was ready. Now that I'm married and much older, I still look back and say to myself that I didn't regret it. You'll know it in your heart when you're really ready. Good Luck.
2007-02-06 10:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by princessk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine on a whim, I was not ready, I didn't give it much thought and I wish I would have waited.
After that didn't work out, I dated another guy, and I was in "love." Knowing now what I wish I would have known then...I would have ditched his *** long before we broke up, LONG before! Sex was the only thing we shared...We never did anything else after a few months, sex was our entire relationship. He used me, and treated me like crap. I don't regret dating him, I regret being so stupid for so long.
I married a very good man. I wish I would have waited until I met him...It would have meant more if I shared my first time with someone who loved me, REALLY loves me...not some half-baked drunken night with a guy I only kinda liked.
I suggest you wait, and see where the relationship goes...I hope it lasts forever, but young relationships usually are not a long-term thing. I won't lecture you about STD's and pregnancy, I have faith that you know good and well how to be safe...I just don't want your memory of your first time to be with someone you thought you loved.
2007-02-06 10:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, then you're not ready! Here's a good test: ask yourself if you'd be happy marrying this guy if you accidentally got pregnant. Would you be able to take care of yourself and your baby? Would he help? Pregnancy is a real risk, even if you use a condom. Don't do it! There's plenty of time when you're older and ready.
2007-02-06 10:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by naturalmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you feel that you are ready, then go for it. but if you are not sure, or think that you aren't then don't do it. even if he pressures you to, and you aren't ready don't do it until you are ready. just remember whatever your decision is, if you do do it, and then something happens, just remember it is something you can't get back. so it has to be special to you, with the person you know you love, and is special to you. hope you make the right choice for yourself. good luck.
2007-02-06 10:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, then tell him. If he loves you he'll wait too. If not then you know that he was just trying to get some action. You'll know when you're ready and when the right time is. Trust yourself and respect your body, wait until you absolutely know that it's the right time.
2007-02-06 10:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by angelgurl13191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...u only do that...if u are ready and if u are in luv..I dont mean luv..I mean u are willing to die if u dont have that special person love.Luv has to come from the heart not from that ur just goin out and that u have to. You do it cuz u luv thaat person alot and u trust that person to let ur body with him. You will find out when ur ready.
G00D LuCk!
Hope I helped...
♥
2007-02-06 10:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably not ready if you asking total strangers to tell you an answer that you need to decide on your own
2007-02-06 10:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Manderz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure, they you arn't ready. When you are ready it will just happen without you having to ask yourself if it is what you want, if it is right or wrong.
2007-02-06 10:09:58 · answer #11 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋