we meet on the internet, a few months after, we spent our first weekend together. but i live in portugal, and she is studying in azores, it's portugal anyway but it's in the middle of the ocean, now we can only be together a weekend each month...the thing is, i love her very much, and she really likes me, but not as much as i do...i'm thinking in going to live there next september while she finishes her degree (2 more years +/-). but only if she becomes more in love with me, if not, i won't go. what do you think?
sorry for my english
2007-02-06 10:06:03 · 2 answers · asked by mister M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be fortunate that you have a weekend each month to be together. My long distance relationship has yours beat by about 15,000 kilometers. I live in California and my wife is living in Vietnam waiting for her immigration visa. We were apart for 10 months before our wedding in November last year and have been apart for over a month now.
It is VERY tough to have a long distance relationship. My wife and I had several moments when we thought our relationship should be called off. We got through it because we knew that we were soul mates and our love for each other kept growing.
The time you have together will be enough if you and your girlfriend are meant to be. It's more important to enjoy the moments you have together than worrying about the time you are apart. I commend you in playing everything smart. You are letting your relationship grow before making some big decisions, such as moving in with her.
Good luck to you two!
2007-02-06 11:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it dude...you don't want to look back one day and think..."what if I only"
At least when you make action, there is some outcome. If you do nothing, then the outcome is already determined.
2007-02-06 10:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋