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I dont know but i don't like going out to eat, and if i want something from outside i just buy it and then go home and eat it.

i dont know but i feel really uncomfortable when other people are looking at me and watching me eat.

Why is this so?

2007-02-06 09:58:38 · 6 answers · asked by c♥♥kie 2 in Health Mental Health

6 answers

The vast majority of people feel uncomfortable when someone is looking at you while you eat. If it's someone special you're with at the table, things tend to get even worse: you'll get clumsy, you won't manage to get those long spaghettis in your mouth, you'll have sauce on your face or food between your teeth. Not to mention that maybe you haven't been taught how to eat properly at a luxury restaurant, and the waiter might bring you some odd-looking fork and you won't know what to do with it!

You will eventually be forced by certain circumstances in your life to face this fear, and it's better to resolve this problem as early as possible. Talk to one of your friends who is "eating savy" and ask them to show you the proper manner of using the "instruments". Try google, you'll find some tips on how it's nice and polite to eat at a restaurant.
When you're done with this part, take one of your good friends with you at an obscure restaurant or at a time of the day when it's almost empty - so that you don't feel uncomfortable with other people around - and exercise what you have learned.

Manners are always important and it's good that you don't want to disregard this aspect of your life. It is a proof of respect to eat properly when you're in the company of others, and you will only gain appreciation for showing that you care for yourself and the people sorrounding you.

2007-02-06 10:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by LoreCore 3 · 0 0

My same problem , I dont like eating in front of people especially men, I dont know why and its not because they will think im a pig or something for sure, i dont know....

ask your doctor, i was gonna ask mine

2007-02-06 10:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by OnSomeLousyPlanet 1 · 0 0

I have no idea I have the same thing but with breathing, I hate breathing when Im around people in say quiet places so i try really hard to breath softly or hold my breath its pretty annoying

2007-02-06 19:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm not sure why this happens, I am the same way right now. I look forward to reading your answers.

2007-02-06 10:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by inquirygirl 4 · 0 0

i dont kno y cuz the same thing happens to me but my hunch is that im nervous people will think im a pig but i dont kno bout u

2007-02-06 10:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Do you binge a lot? That could be it you could be nervous that people think you eat too much when you binge.

2007-02-06 10:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 0 0

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