2007-02-06 09:48:58 · 7 answers · asked by pearl_of_black11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No girl, on the contrary boys like girls with good habits, I wouldn't stand a guy who smoke or drink, that's a key to a failure relationship. Now unless you're a smoker and a drinker, you might as well get somebody who has the same habit. But serious, if u smoke and drink, stop it,you will prevent car accidents, it'll make your face prettier and you will prevent lung and liver cancer, a better life. If you want a good man, first thing is don't look for it in a bar! Go somewhere where it's smoke free, like movies, mall, something like that. good luck girl!
2007-02-06 09:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Einnavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have better luck finding a boyfriend if you don't smoke, who wants to kiss an ashtray. Believe it or not, kissing a smoker is much like sucking on ashes, it can be nasty. Drinking really shouldn't matter as long as you don't do it in excess, nobody wants a relationship with a drunk. Plus, if you drink to much you end up having one night stands or wake up in the morning wondering who the ugly guy in bed with you is.
2007-02-06 17:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the "if you love them you accept them" doesnt work here. the smoking affects the other person as well as you. in women the smoking causes cardiovascular problems, asma in children, your mate can also have problems therefore cant ber around you when you smoke, and kissing a smoker is nasty. drinking is also bad. it kills neurons, makes yiou act like a fool and causes doubt and uncertainty because the person can think"if this one is drinking she could get loose and end up sleeping with anyone or doing things that later youll regret" and drugs well obviously is bad, jail, bad groups, etc. personally I wouldnt like it if my gf would smoke, drink, or do drugs because is truly disgusting. the hair smells like smoke, the breath like alcohol, come on obviously is not a turn on having a gf like that. so goos luck and if you are like that i suggest you change a bit. men dont respect women like this because they will think they are easy. be carefull with who you see and how they see you.
2007-02-07 17:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by MAX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it, are you that susceptible to peer pressure or do you care what everyone else thinks of you? just don't look for a decent bf in a bar, club, etc...those ones are probably going to be the smokers and drinkers....
There a lot of guys out there who don't smoke and don't even drink either....yeah, it may mean you have to dig a little deeper in the pool, but do it, a guy like this probly has his head on a little straighter....
2007-02-06 17:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want 'only' a boyfriend who both smokes and drinks. I'm sorry, but I don't think that whether you 'smoke' or 'drink' should matter to anyone whom you are 'dating' ... I am married to a 'lifelong non-smoker' but he 'fell in love with a smoker' and I still smoke ... and if we can 'get along just fine' I think that everyone else ought to be 'able to get along too' if you REALLY LOVE THEM.
2007-02-06 18:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me no i would not go out with a lady that smokes at all --- drugs are a no no and while i dont mind some light drinking (glass of wine with a meal) im not into heavy drinking --- does that help --- best wishes
2007-02-06 17:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I can't believe you even asked that!!
Those are not requirements there habits, bad habits at that you'll be fine -TRUST-
2007-02-06 17:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by ~InEvItAbLe~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋