2007-02-06 09:37:08 · 20 answers · asked by ♥♥Natalie♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See me and my man have been going strong for 7 months straight. And now he is taking this wierd medicine and hes just not the same. Like for example, he takes the little thing that i do and makes them in to things major. Like yesturday, he wouldnt talk to me. I kept on asking him what is wrong? He still wouldn't answer. And last night on the phone he said,"I think its time to end these past 7 months Natalie. I dont feel like im treating you right, you cry everynight and i know its my fault. And maybe when i stop acting stupid, we can go back out if you want." I cried and told him how i felt about him. I told him," You will see me tomorrow but after that you will see me no more."*tears* We both just cried. We ARE still together but i just dont know what to do now. I've never loved anybody as much as him.
2007-02-08 07:14:58 · update #1
It's time to trade him in, Nat. Don't even sweat it.
2007-02-06 09:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe freaking out because 7 months is a long time to be with someone. He's reached the **** or get off the pot stage and he may not know what he wants to do next. He could just have stress in his own life and not realize he's acting weird cause he has a lot going on. He may have started liking another girl and is thinking about hooking up with her. In order to answer correctly we need more information about what he's doing that's weird. It could be a number of things. If you're scared, the best thing you can do it talk to him about it. He'll know better than a bunch of strangers on the computer. Good luck to ya!
2007-02-06 09:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Legs0891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what 'weird' is. There is a thing called the Seven Month Itch that some people get. My ex did. It's when someone starts to evaluate the realtionship and questioning what they want in life or if a future with you is what that want or not. Men don't like to open up about these things, so you should approach the topic with caution. If he has that 'itchy' feeling, give him some space to think things through. The best thing you can do and talk to him. Good luck!
2007-02-06 09:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by A42381 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how he acts weird.
if he doesn't talk to you without you talking to him first that could just mean he's having trouble with something and can't focus.
if he always seems busy then that could mean two things at the least...one he's interested in another girl or two he is just busy.
if he seems to be a bully in front of his friends then one he might be embarrased or two he's trying to impress you.
i hope this helps
2007-02-06 09:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by estrid2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 months? aw, that's not a good sign... the most humane thing to do right now is to put him out of his misery. put him down... he'd thank you for it. there's no real help after the 6th month...
that's what I do whenever my boyfriends strt acting wierd...
2007-02-06 09:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by sujoy13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would prepare for a break up. Sorry to be so negative Im just going on past experiences.
2007-02-06 09:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he could be cheating if he is acting jumpy around questions then maybe u should talk 2 him because he might be guilty about something.....
HOPE THIS HELPS.....if u need anymore advice contact me im here 2 help not get points...
2007-02-06 09:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd suggest acting wierder. That will see if he's playing with your mind or just playing.
2007-02-06 09:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He either wants more out of the relationship sexual or freedom, or he might be plotting a breakup.... just my guess
2007-02-06 09:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by Joe W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him dead in the eye and be holding a baseball bat and ask, "What the hell are you talking about?"
2007-02-06 09:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋