I have a small dilemma here I have a secret admire that sends me flowers and all shorts of goodies to my office. I got an I-pod this past week I really don’t know who it is from... in the short term past I have gotten phones and my boyfriend gets extremely upset at me... he does not believe that it is someone that I don’t know giving me this stuff... now what should I do with the I pod should I keep it? The flowers and all the other stuff I just received what do I do????
2007-02-06 09:35:20 · 5 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do not know who to return it to???
2007-02-06 09:40:04 · update #1
Maybe you should keep it if you want to because the person must really like to you to by such an expensive gift so keep to listing to music on road trips and such. But if your bf is reallly mad and you don't want to keep it then dont and leave the stuff where you the person always leaves stuff and leave a note saying that it is sweet but you have a bf and he doent like it. But I don't think you guys are to good because he doesnt trust you and a relashonship builds on trust and it based on it to.
2007-02-06 09:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop accepting these gifts then, your bf has a right and a reason to suspect a little bit....I mean, some person is sending you stuff for the obvious hopes of endearing themself to you, and even if you have no idea who is doing this, which how can you have no idea? especially if you say it's happenned in the past? you must be sending signals that you're available, or you've just encouraged them to go too far by not declining their advances, and let's keep it real, these are advances, and you have a bf already....not different from being offerred another man's telephone number...would you be accepting those?!!
2007-02-06 09:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the stuff if you want, but you may be encouraging the secret admirer to keep going. If you want it to stop, leave the ipod where you found it with a note that says thank you but please stop.
2007-02-06 09:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf is acting this way simply cuz he is protective of you and loves you and hopefully you respect that...if you do put yourself in his place and imagine how you wud feel if he constantly kept receiving flowers and things of that sort which wud make you doubt them that they were meeting with someone...if you truly respect his feelings for you then don't accept those gifts..it wud hurt his heart to know that you wud accept those things from any stranger...by not accepting them he will believe that you respect his love for you and that you only care about the things he gives you
2007-02-06 09:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tidus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont keep it. Just return it.
2007-02-06 09:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋