We both go to school and we talk once about our school history and religion. She told me she used to go to private school and had to wear a dress. And she didn't like it. So she now goes to public school. And are conversation ended when the bell rang. She said i'm a loser and she walk away and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed toward to another class. Why do you think she called her self a loser for?
She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and she was behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright and that was it.
2007-02-06 09:32:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-06 09:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl has very low self-esteem issues due to family problems in her household. I have a feeling that she is not supported enough at home and taking her oppression out in the world.
Take her out as a friend, and if she comes up with something saying that she is not good enough, say this...
..."Does it matter that you feel you are not good enough? And kindly tell her that you are not perfect either...everybody's human and it could be worst." (Say it discreetly so it doesn't sound so patronizing.)
If the girl is forcefully telling you that she is a loser, and avoids you, then your best bet is to go elsewhere and make another friend. Don't take it personally. Obviously, she has issues and you don't need that type of emotional baggage in your life.
2007-02-06 17:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is kinda bash-full and so u may need to make more effort to talk with her as friend and try ur best to make her laugh and feel comfortable around u and then if u really like her ask her out on a date.. good luck hope that helped.
2007-02-06 17:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she definitely needs some good love and affection- just by the way she responds she may have had a few troubles in her life. i dont know if she wants you to ask her out but i think if you do she will be hesistant at first but if you talk her up and tell her wonderful things about herself while waiting on an answer you will be irresistable to her and she will say yea boyyeeee!!!
2007-02-06 17:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by karen_webster_23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a little crush yourself. Do your research first be her friend find out what she likes talk to her more. Even ask her why she made that loser comment. Never rush things it only Fricks things up.
2007-02-06 18:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow..i really dont think she really cares if ur going to ask her out or not....:)
But alll I can say its a star of a beautiful friendship...((Corny..hehhe))
Well I would say she kinda likes u.....She likes ur personalaty..and I guess ur conversations..she might of called her self a loser becuz she did something stupid in front of u or..she might of juist remembered one day that was really enbaresing..and she just called her self a loser....why dont u ask her.... :)
G00d Luck!
2007-02-06 17:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,she seems to have really bad self confidense, so you are going to have to be very careful. Dont ask her out just yet...okay. Try to talk to her as much as you can, and try to make her laugh. Then when she seems to be upset...tell her that if she ever needs anyone to talk to,,,u will be there for her.She may not nessisarily talk to u about her problems butshe will be happy that u care about her. Thats all girls really want,,,,,is to know that a guy cares about her.If things move along with u and her smoothly then u should go for it , but untill then just play it cool ,,,,,,k?
I hope i helped......GOOD LUCK!!..............Much Love!!
2007-02-06 17:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thought she was a loser because most girls like wearing skirts and dresses but she doesn't. Before you ask her out, get to know her better. If you get to know eachother better I'm sure she'll like you.
2007-02-06 17:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by RachelPwnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask why did she leave private school and now she public schoo; i say she has a lot of problems maybe with herself or at home i say she trying to get to know you slowly and thats how you should take it have little chats build it up and then when u thinks she ready ask her out if u dtill want to
2007-02-06 17:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.... Well do u even like her? Maybe she feels she's a loser because she had to go to that school and wear a dress or something. Or that she brought up that conversation?
2007-02-06 17:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds really nervous and self-conscious around you. She may like you or could just be really insecure. Why not ask her out. What have you got to lose. But be sweet to her either way. She seems shy and unhappy to me
2007-02-06 17:37:46 · answer #11 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋