What can I do?

Question

If you've not spoken to your close female friend for 2 months and when ur mate mentions YOUR NAME and suggests everyone meets up and her REACTION is:

She just goes quiet, he asks her again,mentioning my name and all she says is NO-her mood changed completly after my name was mentioned.She doesn't say anything else until the topic changed.

MEANING?What is she possibly feeling?

All advice appreciated.......

We had a falling out-said I needed time out(we weren't a couple,just got to close) I've apologised numerous times 1 month ago-shes still ignoring me.

Why is she hurting-she only wanted to be friends

Answer 1

ok so the reason she's ignoring you (in my opinion) is because maybe when you guys were close she really liked you and was maybe thinking that it could go into a relationship but then you said that you needed some time apart and that was a huge blow to her. she proboly feels hurt and insanely angry at you beacuse thats what people do when they get hurt they get angry. so you need to be as nice to her as you possibly can without over doing it and creeping her out. and then when she feels a little better who knows she might even start talking to you again.

Answer 2

Dude, she's still pissed at you and doesn't want anything to do with you.
Was your apology a recognition and repetenance of whatever you did wrong, or was it more of a "I'm sorry you're mad" or "I'm sorry I got caught" sort of apology? Write her a full, sincere apology, and stress that you hope you can be friends again. If it doesn't work, then you just have to respect her decision to cut you out of her life, and take it as a good lesson to deal more carefully with people's hearts in the future.

Answer 3

You gotta ask her out right. Cards on the table and all that.
You have to apply a bit of tact of course, don't go in all guns blazing but if you don't ask you will never now what it is you have done or what it is she is feeling.

Talk to her. Keep it simple. None of the beating round the bush stuff.

Answer 4

you must have hurt her pretty bad. looks like this one is up to her. if she feels like she just doesnt want you in her life ever again then theres nothing much you can do. there's two possibilities, either the one that i just mentioned that she doesnt want to talk you in her life ever again, or that she just needs her own time to let go of the pain and eventually let you in her life again. either way, there's nothing you can do. she needs time, leave her alone while she does what she needs to do.

Answer 5

every1 responds to things differently. shes just upset that you requested a "time out" and isnt ready to get back to how things were. in a way, shes doing to you what you did to her a while back. just give her space and over time, she'll realize what she really wants. but don't force her into anything she's not comfortable with!

Answer 6

don't force the issue, give her space. Its hard to be rejected and she is feeling rejected and has to get her confidence back. For all you know she really likes you and you shot her down. Its easiest to ask her directly, and let her know you want to hang around her but don't want to her her or your friendship. If she luvs ya she will understand, it may take time

Answer 7

You might want to back off a while, she has no room to come back to you if your too busy trying to get her back. Ignore her a while and eventually she'll realize that she should forgive you. Let me know how everything works out!! _-*Sarah*-_

Answer 8

Maybe she's upset with you... something obviously happened if she reacted that way.

Answer 9

move on with your life if she doesent want to bother why should you tip toe around her

Answer 10

stop repeating your question thatll be a start!!