Okay,I need help....I have an older brother(16)then me,my brother Ryan(10)my brother Danny(9)my sister Molly(7) and my brother Conner(6) in my family...I think, my mom and step dad are gonna have a baby!How can I ask my mom about whats going on and how I feel
2007-02-06 08:51:00 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica-Just Another Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, i suggest first asking yourself how you really feel about this.
A new baby means a lot of changes, and since your still young you may be feeling a lot of conflicting emotions concerning the thought of a new baby. If your mum and step-dad plan on having a new baby then at the end of the day it is there choice.
Of course i don't know your mother or how she would react if you just came out and told her how you feel, but the best way would be to discuss the idea with her. tho i imagine she would be upset at first.
it may be a good idea to try and spend time with your mom, go shopping (even if it is for baby stuff) or just sit and talk to her about whatevers, you may find that your feelings towards a new sibling may change over time.
i think that no matter what your true feelings are that you need to show your mom that she has your support. it may be difficult but as i said before it is her choice in life, you don't need to go down the same road.
sorry if you feel this doesn't help.
2007-02-06 10:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by booboaba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jessica.I got some answers to my question.They all pretty much sucked...We have a big enough family anyways.And did mom and Jake ever think about if they got twins!?I just was thinking of that.That would be A LOT worse!
2007-02-07 13:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you have quite a family - and how do you feel? Right now if they are expecting another child there is only one way for you to handle it. Be excited for them. Welcome the new baby and offer to baby sit. You can't change anything now so don't make it difficult for them - they have a lot to adjust to also. Best of luck.
2007-02-06 16:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpicker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you feel that something is going on and that you'd like to know. Tell her it's making you feel uncomfortable and that you'd like to talk to her.
You need to get that off your chest, so be open with her if you want her to be open with you.
Good luck
2007-02-06 16:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her. ask her to be honest with you. ask her if you can have some time with her away from the other kids - maybe you could ask to go to a special dinner with her or for a walk to talk about it?
2007-02-06 16:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to sit down then start talking to her....let her know that you already have enough brothrs/sis and that you dont want them to have another kid...she'll get upset at first but just ask her to understand!!!!thats all the adivice i have......good luckk
2007-02-06 16:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by ~britt~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask
2007-02-06 17:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by jelly ♥s him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy them a tv or something to do...cards, dominoes something....
2007-02-06 16:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋