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Question

so i went on a date with this guy and we had a good time. i said so, he said so...we held hands and we kissed at the end of the date. but now it's monday, and it's awkward. i was talking to one of my friends and she had told me that she talked to him while he was in front of his guy friends and he said that we just made out...nothing serious but he wouldn't mind doing it again. but the trouble is i like him more than just a friend. i think he's blowing it off because he thinks that's how i feel about it...nothing serious. i just want to tell him my feelings just to get it off my chest. i was going to do it on v-day but is that a bad time?
advice? observations?

he he didn't like me, why would he want to do it again?

Answer 1

Think about this what you just asked yourself... "If he didn't like me, who would he want to do it again?" That is ONE big hint that he likes you too, but he's confused also and can't get it off his chest either! Well, here's my point... guys usually won't make the 1st move cuz they want to make themselves look cool and not messing up like a total loser, ok? So that's why YOU have to talk to him. I think V-day is the PERFECT time. Just say,"I have to tell you this now, and I am really serious, I really do like you." If you sound nervous, he's gonna get nervous too and back away. You want this to work, right? So do it the right way, just how I told you.