im in high school and me and my gf hav been goin out for a lil while. this is our first valentins day i hav sumthing special for her planned but during school i feel odded out because shes always flirting with this guy she likes. she didnt ask if it bothered me (and it does,) and when ever we see each other she always brings him everywhere. we are both bi-sexualls and i really REALLY like her what do i do?????
2007-02-06 08:44:12 · 8 answers · asked by roxie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's tough--I don't know enough about her. Is she making a point with you -- making sure you know she isn't 'yours'? Is she doing it to tease you, and make you hotter for her? Is she really bi- (you are in high school, how much experience could she have?), or was she experimenting? Is she using the guy for appearances, for sex, or is she using you? From what you posted, this really could be anything, but I think if you look deeper at your relationship you'll find the answer.
2007-02-06 08:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably have to screw up your courage and ask her about her loyalties and what she intends by being with the guy so much. It would be difficult for me to do that because I'd be afraid of being hurt but the truth may hurt less than being in the never-never land you seem to be in now.
2007-02-06 08:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you or just wants to bring him into the fold, no pun intended. Talk to her and find out what her intentions are, alot of young people claim to be bi, gay, or lesbian but once they tested the waters they find it's not right for them.
2007-02-06 08:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to that guy, see what's going on, ask her who he is, maybe he's just a good friend, but If things don't work, if you're uncomfortable, you & her can still be close friends, don't fight a relationship if things aren't working out & you don't want her around him.-good luck.
2007-02-06 08:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and find yourself a BOYfriend...Sorry, I know this maybe harsh and hard to hear..but what you're doing is wrong..very wrong..give up this relationship.
2007-02-06 08:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuals?! hahahahahahahaha
2007-02-06 08:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Am I. Incognito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she's just using you for all those good lick jobs!!!
2007-02-06 08:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tighty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what is going on..stop trying to guess.
2007-02-06 08:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by whatelsewhatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋