Can a long distance relationship work out?

Question

For instance,
My boyfriend and I live in two separate states.! I live in Nebraska and he lives in Texas? But can it work out? We haven't seen each other since I don't know when! But we talk on the phone every day every night too? But we are so far?
Can this relationship work out?
Is there a chance?
Thanks for answering for who ever answers my question!

And this guy loves me and he wouldn't do anything to hurt me!!

Answer 1

My boyfriend and I live in two separate places also and I know how you really feel. It is really hard aside from the long distance call charges.We talk at least once a day coz of the time difference(night time in my place is dawn to him). But we make sure that we see each other at least once every 2 years.The reason why?
Coz we feel like we are just friends,normal friends, if we just talk on the phone and it's not right. Sometimes lovers need to feel each others warmth,physically.I miss his kiss and his touch and the same with him, and we can't do that without seeing each other. It makes our relationship stable.

I am not saying that your relationship will not work out. It depends also on how much you really love each other but seeing each other also will make your love grow for each other.

Don't you miss him?

Good luck and regards to you and your bf.

Answer 2

You definitely have the right idea in staying in very close contact by talking so much, but long distances relationships can only stay long distance for so long. Do you really want things to be like this forever? If it's going to work, I think you need to make a plan to be living closer together by a certain time. My husband and I were three time zones apart during nine months (before we were married, early on during the relationship), but knowing when he'd be moving back helped. If I didn't know if we were ever going to be together (distance-wise), it would have been much harder to hold the relationship together. Keep talking every day...and while you're at it, make a plan.

Answer 3

Long distance relationships can work but you need to recognize that at some point you will need to live in the same state. I have dated my fiancee long distance at two seperate times in our relationship. It was hard and a lot of work but we made it through. It helps if you have a strong relatioship before you are seperated and you have a plan for when you can be reunited. If you are jsut starting things out that makes it much more difficult and if neither of you ever plan on moving well then i dont think it can work.

Answer 4

Long distance relationships can definitely work out, but it's never easy. I was in a long distance relationship for a year. It became long distance about 3 months after we started dating. She went away to grad school.

It take a lot of trust, and a lot of work. Love, communication and trust. You need those three things more than anything if you expect to get through it. But if you have those things, it can be done. Just keep the lines of communication open, and as long as you both want the same thing, it can work out.

But it's difficult. It takes a lot of trust and a great deal of commitment.

Answer 5

i believe any relationship can work with a little bit of effort.........my boyfriend and i were like that too before but we managed to work on it and we talked everyday on the phone and it's been 1 yr and 2 months and its still going....now we live close to eachother....i mean sure at first it was very hard for us but we got through it and look at us now....just take it one day at a time if it doesnt work out then dont b sad just b happy dat u made it dat far and everything went gr8 while it lasted.

Answer 6

It can, but you both have to be willing to sacrifice things. Are you willing to give up any potiential mates to maintain the relationship you currently have that consist purely of phone conversations. Are either of you able to travel every so often to see each other or possibly meet somewhere in the middle for a weekend together? Any thing is possible, but it depends on how much you are willing to give up for this relationship.

Answer 7

Very few long distance relationships actually work out...
But, there's a few very important factors that can make the difference, such as..Age, distance, how much you care for each other, etc..If you really love each other, and you want to..you can make things work here..it ain't gonna be easy, but it's possible...otherwise, you may as well just throw in the towel..

Answer 8

most of the time, long distance relationships dont work out. but dont give up hope, maybe urs can. 1 time, my friend was really sad when she lived in Washington D.C. & her bf was in Greece so she broke off the letters cuz she couldnt handle not being with her bf any longer. then he came to visit...& they luved each other again. but when my friend's grandpa was sick in Greece, my friend went back w/ her bf to Greece & at the funeral of her grandpa, she found out that her bf was dating another girl but that girl was his gf b4 when she broke off the letters so now, shes still lookin for the right guy.

Answer 9

yes it can work out and it will work out due to the fact that your on the net asking about it which means you care enough to want it to workout cause if not , you wouldnt ask

Answer 10

YEAH! it works! communicate much more often as you can! send some sort of notes tru texting daily to catch his attentions not to forget you! good luck!