So this boy says he like me.
I ok with it but I don't want to talk to him.
He keeps bugging to talk to him.
I don't know if I should.
I can't talk to him normaly knowing that he likes me.
But he thinks I hate him or somehting, but it's hard to tell him any thing.
WHAT DO I DO?
(I am a 13 yr. old girl give me something I can do please!)
2007-02-06 08:27:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. What you're doing, though I doubt you mean to, is playing games with him. He was brave enough to tell you he likes you, and at that age he probably got a lot of ribbing from his buddies. Just talk to him. Live in the moment. Don't think "well, this could happen, or that could happen, or maybe I should do this or that, or end this before it begins." Talk to him like you would anyone else.
You are young, but being honest and open are good skills to learn at any age. Being yourself and not playing games will help you in the long run, with this boy or in future relationships.
Right now he's probably regretting that he ever told you. Just start by saying hi. Ask him how he is. Don't worry about what other people think (I know that's a high demand, especially at your age). Just work on being yourself. That's what he likes. Otherwise he wouldn't have said anything in the first place.
2007-02-06 08:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets hope you talk better than you type. Your 13...all you should be doing at this point is talking...I always hated for people to get the wrong impression. If you like him...TALK to him. If you don't then tell him you are too young for a b-friend and don't talk to him anymore. If you talk to him, it doesn't have to be an hour long conversation. Just talk to him about his likes and dislikes and get to know him a little better and tell him about yourself. When you run out of things to say, just say "I've got chores I've got to do so I better go for now" and say goodbye. If you are having a hard time with it...you are not ready. We've all been through it. You'll get over it.
2007-02-06 16:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you shy? Just talk to him, don't lead him on let him know you just want to be friends is you don't like him.
2007-02-06 16:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋