We were close friends for a couple years, then he asked me out and i said yes. we dated for maybe 5 months or so. then i broke up with him because i thought it was the best thing to do with all the problems we were having because we were together. So he tells me that he still wants to date me. i just dont know to say yes or no. i think we both have to move on. wut is the best way to do that and still be close friends??
2007-02-06 08:13:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on and Find someone else
2007-02-06 08:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by BCSC SuperLeader 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any way to still be close friends. You do not have to hate each other, but once you cross that line, it is very difficult to get it back. If you don't feel absolutely sure you want to be with him, then don't be with him. Give it some time, and the friendship may come back. But if you feel you need to move on, then do just that. It is better for both of you if you don't prolong this.
2007-02-14 05:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by tricithedici05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it honestly sounds like you know the answer. Getting over a breakup is never fun. However, hang out with friends or do your own thing for awhile. If he persists on getting back together, state to him it's not a good idea and explain why. Sometimes the chemistry is only strong enough for great friendships but nothing more =) Good luck!
2007-02-06 08:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you guys are having problems is because you don't feel the same way about each other. If you felt the way he does then you wouldn't hesitate to date him again. It's best at this point to save the friendship and let him know that you would rather remain friends.
2007-02-14 07:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by karenavest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that u do care about him a loy but u think its best to just be friends now and so on, we both need to move on and u know it
2007-02-06 08:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way you should stay with him instead of falling in love with someone else and the same things happens to you all over again.
2007-02-06 08:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Glamour&Glory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him. Date his best friend and have sex/bj with him....that will help u get over ur ex boyfriend
2007-02-14 07:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 19:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by nastasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on and staying friends would be hard, if not impossible. You might have to distance yourself.
2007-02-06 08:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and get a new friend. keep him around and he'll want the old relationship again.
2007-02-13 19:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋