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He broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. We still live togetehr and still sleep in the same bed. He is often rude and cold but then nice and genuine. He came home last night after being away for the weekend and tried to make out with me. I refused because I feel like i am being used. He really isnt like that type of guy to use people and I think he is really confused on what HE wants out of life. But when is enough...enough. I cant continue to go on like this but I love him very deeply. Someone help!

2007-02-06 08:11:42 · 6 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You can't break up with someone and live with them at the same time, never mind still sleep in the same bed. When he is not so confused you can talk to him again. I say move out before he brings another girl home.. then what?

2007-02-06 08:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0 0

Except HIM for who HE is and if you don't like HIM move out.
If a man has been gone all weekend then consider him used goods girlfriend. You are too good to be treated like crap and used. Who cares if he's confused, what matters is what YOU want. If you are not 100% cool with your current arrangement/situation with him then YOU make the decision to leave. Most people don't ever regret Leaving but I know so many Woman that regret Staying in a shltty relationship. Enough was the moment he stayed gone all weekend and then came through the door trying to put the moves on you like your suppose to know where his grimy Azz has been all weekend or Who he has been with all weekend. Have a good Cry, maybe even some farewell sex ( just 2 show him what he'll never have the pleasure of getting again) and MOVE ON...Good Luck Girl!!!

2007-02-06 16:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by HONEY 2 · 0 0

First I must ask why do you still stay in the same house and especially the same bed? I don't know about his love for you but I can tell you that your love is not helping with your deciding on what to do. maybe you know what you should do but cant because of the love factor. He doesn't love you or he wouldn't treat you this way he wants to use you when he wants and play you for a fool. Is it the fact you are worried about what will happen when you move out? I am sure there is another man out there that will give you the love in return you deserve. Please give your self more credit and make a choice a choice for your future and all the happiness you should have.

2007-02-06 16:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by patriot 1 · 0 0

Move out, give yourselves both a chance to experience life without each other. If you feel yourselves being drawn back together, go for it. Staying together while being broken up only confuses things. Breaking up doesn't necessarily mean you don't care for each other or aren't attracted to each other, so naturally sleeping together is going to cause some confusion. Put some space in there, u'll either end up missing the hell out of each other, or wondering what took you so long to get out in the first place.

2007-02-06 16:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am in the exact same position that you are in... my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years and we have lived together for 2 1/2 years....he broke up with me over 3 weeks.... we still live together, we still sleep in the same bed.... he is distant with me but I try to open up to him and talk more to him.... he has never slept overnight away from the house.... but you just know when someone is being cold or distant with you....
The way that I have been dealin with it is just pray about it, read my bible, spend time with family and friends that are positive and spend time by myself..... sometimes these are the things that we need... if he states that it is over then he should not be trying to make passes at you and you need to stand your ground and tell him that you two are not together and before you two decide to get physical there are some things that you two need to discuss... do not let him make a fool of you by trying to have his cake and eat it too....without comitting to you and only you..... Please if you need anything let me know...sometimes I need someone to talk to as well....I am here..... good luck!

2007-02-06 16:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mye 2 · 1 0

Oh god... I've been there before... This is the hardest part about breaking up.

First and foremost, SOMEONE NEEDS TO MOVE OUT, and I think it needs to be you.

You can't continue to live like this and drag out your misery.

Get away from him and work on healing your heart... How do you expect to move on when you're around him all the time??

Concentrate on yourself... go out with the girls... It's going to be hard as hell, but try not to keep running back to him just because you're comfortable with him and you miss the good times you had.

You'll find someone who will appreciate you and love you...

Good luck... hang in there!!

2007-02-06 16:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by violetmal 2 · 0 0

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