Well i meet this boy (a) over the summer. I feel for (a) as soon as i saw him and about two weeks later we were going out. it didnt last we were only together for about a week. (a)'s friend asked me out and i was about to say yes when (a) told me that he was sorry for dumping me and that he really loved me. so about a month after we started going out again. in october we broke up with eachother. I still really like him and ever since i first saw him i always have done, but he doesnt feel the same way about me.
What should i do...?
2007-02-06 08:04:00 · 13 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life's an SOB, ain't it? This is a story that's been told over again and again. (Boy meets girl...).
My recommendation is to NOT sweat it. You sound pretty young. So, you must realize that you have a long life ahead of you and to have someone who doesn't seem to care about you disrupt it due to his LACK OF presence, well, is not healthy.
You called him a 'boy'. If he's a boy, expect him to act like a boy. Sh!t, almost every grown man I've ever met act like boys. When you find a man, you'll know it.
2007-02-06 08:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by r~@~w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All this making up and breaking up isnt a healthy relationship, but the reason you may not can get over him, is because you liked him so much that its kind of hard to no matter what he does to you now....but i wouldnt call it love because love doesnt do the things that you describe. This is how life is its no true exsplanation on WHY cant you get over him, the question is WHAT are you going to do to get over him, like go out, meet somoene else, do something that would get your mind off him. Its really sad because everyone goes through this. Its life, but if he say he doesnt like you like that no more, the only thing you could do is just say ok and try to recover. But you will find someone else it may even take time and when you do you will look back on this situation and wonder why you even made a big deal out of that guy.
2007-02-06 16:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by lefteye w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try really having that talk with him about how you really feel about him. Knowing for sure that he doesnt really feel the same way will make it easier to let him go. I think you really just tried to rush things and you gave your heart away to easy because it seems like you have deep feelings for him. Breaking up more than one time is usually a sign that it wont work it right now and that it needs more time before you two can be together and sometimes it just means it wasnt meant to be.
2007-02-06 16:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Memphis10Grizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen this happened to me 2. i once dumped my bf cuz i saw him cheatin on me. i couldnt get ova it and i kept writing my exbf's name all over again on paper. i couldnt stand it so i called him and told him that i still luved him. he was really happy. ok...so (a) doesnt feel for u and u feel for him? this is what u do... since u cant get ova him, u need 2 date another guy to make (a) jealous. if (a) isnt jealous, then maybe u need 2 stop cryin & move on with ur life...focus on grades, ur friends & family, not ur exes...i know...love hurts.
2007-02-06 16:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hugs & Kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you still have feelings for him u need to move on and let him go.it seems as if he`s saying all the right things now that u guys broke up(again) and someone else is intrested in you.don`t fall for his little game anymore.trust me you`ll get over him and find somebody who`ll love u back.
this guy is not worth your time.
2007-02-06 16:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Snowflake♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't much help at all but i dont know i cant get someone out of my head and its driving me round the twist but im hoping it will just get better on its own and in the mean time im trying not to think about it (but its not easy).
2007-02-06 16:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you're that close to him you can still be good friends, you don't have to avoid him for life, keep in touch once in a while, maybe you're both best off being friends. (My ex-gf is like my best friend, we still talk & go places, we just lost interests in each other when it comes to dating.)
2007-02-06 16:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the only reason he got reinterested was that someone else was interested. Doesnt sound like this guy treated you like you want to be so find one that does.
2007-02-06 16:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by L S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what really needs to happen is that you two need to stop talking and communicating with him (email, txt message, calling).....and start spending time with family and friends that are close to you and that are positive....get a hobby and start doing things for yourself..... you will soon get over him..... it just takes time....
2007-02-06 16:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another, dont u think? Do u have any idea how many men there are out there? Put yourself out there.
2007-02-06 16:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋