I asked out this guy a few weeks ago, and he said no, and we resolved to stay friends. I then became interested in one of his friends, and we've been going out ever since. The guy i originally asked out now says he thinks he loves one of my best friends, and i feel raging mad everytime he talks about her. what should i do
2007-02-06 07:48:50 · 9 answers · asked by abdias94 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to focus on your own stuff and not what that guy is up to. Appreciate he told you no because he was indeed interested in someone else. He could have been a total dog and dated the both of you. Go have fun with your man!!
2007-02-06 07:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious u wish those feelings were meant for u. Both of u decided to stay friends,so as his friend u should feel open to talk about anything,even ur feelings toward him.U shouldnt let those things get to u becuz u have a boyfriend of ur own.Ur making him think ur over the whole situation now and moved on. If hes really a good friend hell understand, its not like u havent told him b4 bout how u felt. By the 2nd time of u telling him, hell give u a definite answer to bring closure to this situation.
2007-02-06 07:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you mad at him for liking someone else when you both decided to stay friends and you're seeing his friend? I don't follow. I think if you want to be friends with him you need to be willing to accept the fact he will be dating other girls and talking to you about it. You need to decide if you can be there for him like you want him to be there for you. If not then a friendship isn't going to work. I understand you have feelings for this guy that go beyond friendship, but you need to be fair to him. Either you talk to him and try to date each other or you both date other people, but you can't be mad at him for liking someone while you're seeing someone else. That's a one sided friendship. I hope I didn't offend you in any way and I hope this helps. Good luck to you.
2007-02-06 07:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i kinda had the same problem. like i asked about to ask this girl out but it turned out she got asked like 2 days before by my friend. i wasnt like really mad but i realized they were good together. but then, whenever id like follow them around, id kinda feel like the third wheel. but thats already resolved. i just keep telling myself that itd be better to not think about what could hav been and think about what could be.
2007-02-06 07:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, your just jealous, thats a natural thing to feel. look, you gave it your best shot and he turned you down, thats it. now you have to decide if you can be friends with him or not. you need to not feel mad, he hasn't done anything wrong, he has been honest with you.
2007-02-06 07:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definately don't love you b/f,why waste his time when you know you have feelings for somebody else.
2007-02-06 07:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by prettyg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may just have to suck it up and get over it.
2007-02-06 08:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeleous much?
2007-02-06 07:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
three simple words green...with...envy get over it sweetie
2007-02-06 07:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋