My mom just got remarried a month ago and now i have a stepbrother who is 18.He says really nasty things to me and has touched me once. I dont know what to do and im really scared, btw im 14
2007-02-06 07:48:04 · 17 answers · asked by steph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no chucho i dont live in arkansas why?
2007-02-06 08:14:38 · update #1
do you live in Arkansas?
2007-02-06 07:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is definitely not a situation to be messed with. Let both parents know exactly what it is that's taken place, things that have been said and where touching was. Due to his age, if the situation is severe, legally they can have him removed from the household since he's an adult. I would tell your mother and stepfather together that way they both get the full details at the same time etc..Good luck and keep me posted!!
2007-02-06 16:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, i just wanna say im sorry because i know sometimes remarriages could be really hard on kids..my mom hasnt remarried yet and im 18..i lost my father when i was 7 years old..but hang in there he's probally dealing with some feelings right now as well..don't make him think that your intiminated by him..your only 14 he has no right to bully you..jsut stand up for yourself next time and say something mean back..trust me eventually he will back off and he will try to make friends with you
2007-02-06 15:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR MOTHER AND HIS FATHER. Do not let this go any further as you may not be as safe around him as you should be. He could have problems that you don't know about. Tell your mother right away. The nasty words can be ignored, but touching you is another thing and should not be allowed.
2007-02-06 15:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your Mom as soon as possible. It would be very dangerous for you if you were left alone with him. If you can't tell your mom--tell your Dad, an aunt, uncle, grandparent, teacher, or counselor. Please do it right away, this could be dangerous to you! Good luck!
Please realize it is totally not your fault--he is 18 and an adult, you are not. He should know better.
2007-02-06 15:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom. If that don't work, call the cops and child protection. You might also consider buying a baseball bat and beating him senseless, but I would use that as a last resort.
2007-02-06 15:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're alone with your mom, let her know how you feel and what he's done. Try not to be alone with him. If you have to, just try not to get into conversations with him or anything.
Good luck, you step brother sounds like a jerk which concerns me about your stepdad.
2007-02-06 16:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother! No one has the right to touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable! It doesn't matter why he's doing it, he needs to stop!
2007-02-06 16:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother immediately! Tell him if he ever does anything like that again you will call the police!
2007-02-06 15:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom immediately. you dont deserve that crap from the stepbrother
2007-02-06 15:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell somebody that you know that care alot bout you are move with someone you know that will (HELP) you out. dont be scared just do something bout it.
2007-02-06 17:08:13 · answer #11 · answered by jazz0172300 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋