i got married when i was 17, marriage sadly failed (yes i know u all told me so lol) but i loved being married and hurt so much when it all went wrong. im 26 now and think i have fallen in love again.......but i swore i would never marry again.
can a 2nd marriage work? what would prevent that marriage falling apart too? how can u eva b certain when being in love clearly isnt the only thing to make a marriage succesful?
2007-02-06 07:47:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Your life is not determined by your first union. Just because it didn't work out that first time, does not mean that you are doomed to a life of being single. Communication is the key to a happy marriage. Don't let communication stop just because you are married. You should always be growing in your relationship - finding out new and exciting things. Don't be afraid of failure. Know that this will work. Before you were young and inexperienced. But this is different, and you know more now.
2007-02-06 07:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely a second marriage can work and be better than the first. First of all you are much more mature now and know what you want. The most important thing to do to keep the second marriage from being the same as the first is to analyze what went wrong on the first one and make sure it doesn't happen in the second. Talk to you current boyfriend about what happened and what you want to do to prevent it from happening again. The one thing you must do is communicate.
2007-02-06 08:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time use a laptop and not older cell phone. The text is 2 hrd 2 foloe. Ok. First when people fight it's fighting. Not He is abusing me. Since you are fighting back he could say the same Next divorce after 2 months is just childish. So grow up don't even go there. What are you really so mad about? The fact that he is trying to ACT like a man in front of his family by puting you in your place? Which is childish on his part. Or are you mad because he didn't obey you not to go drinking? And that you catch him at times he is tired dint want to go out? Did he go out with buds same night he told you he was too tired? This sounds more like he treated you like a JAP when dating. And now since your married and living with his parents he is being stupid. ANSWER. Get him to be a man and find a place of your own. Remind him of the wild sex you both could have in your kitchen living room hallways.
2016-03-29 08:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married twice:
1. I was 18yrs old. married my high school sweetheart she screwed around on me six months in.
2. I was 25. I married my best friend ( we had known each other for about 20yrs) she went nutty and became emotionally unstable...so I Left.
I had gotten married searching for that "perfect" kind of happiness, i got married again because i thought i had found it..I was wrong both times...But I Keep on looking...
Seek and Ye shall find...
Now i'm in a relationship with a wonderful lady, I'm 28now. And we could not be happier...we are taking things slow and marriage is planned for summer 2008. I think i finally found what I have been seeking ;)
2007-02-07 17:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by SCREWBAG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too married at 17 divorced and married again very quickly and started a family thought we were very happy but he had affairs The third time i made sure we were very good friends and lived together a long time then we married and very happy we do not go out socialising apart looking back I think people get married before really knowing what thier partner is like to live with
2007-02-06 08:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by susan will of the wisp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I got married at 18 but it was an unhappy marriage.
I vowed I would never get married again also. I had a few years
just going out with the girls. Having fun and just doing what I
wanted to do. Then out of the blue I met my soulmate. He was
not the type of guy that I would normally go for, but we just clicked. I just knew he was 'Mr Right'.
Within a few months I fell pregnant with our son and a few years
later we had a daughter. We have had our ups and downs but
we are really happy. No one can say whether our marriages
will be successful - you do have to work at it. Because you
just don,t know the person until you live with them.
Just because you said you would never get married again
don,t let that put you off. Good Luck.
2007-02-06 08:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so wonderful that your actually thinking about it and not jumping into anything, good for u. I say of course you will be millions :) time happier, because your older, have experience and wont settle right? Just prepare yourself fully before you committ again so the problems wont lie on u so heavily. Know what to do to make a relationship work. Nothing easy, it will be hard work no matter how much u love her. But your goal should be, to have the other say, the longer were married the better it gets. Buy books, read! and listen to Dr Laura, how could u go wrong again :)
2007-02-06 07:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For me I think woman wait ten years say 36 but I know nothing I hope he's mature for you I am having problem @ 51 describing my feeling I had been out with plenty of girls the last three or four years each time I get shook off and now she's older lost a husband but so far consoling each other by just going out!
2007-02-06 08:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes indeed. 2nd time for me, mrried when I was 18, lasted for 13 years.....now happily remarried (for 2 and a half years) and soooooooooooooooooooo in lurve! Marriage is what you make it! Work at it together - you're part of a team.
Good luck making the decision, whatever you do have a happy future!
2007-02-06 07:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by purplehairsarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a second marriage can work. Learn from the mistakes of the 1st.
2007-02-06 07:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋