Me and this girl was friends since 7th grade now we are in 9th. I started going with this guy in jan. She is having a party and invited almost everyone but me. I don't know why cuz me and her used to be mad tight. I started to not like her that much at the start of 9th grade. She was acting mad funny. She isn't a real pretty girl she's alright and whenever i would come to school looking nice everyone would complement me but her. She would either say i looked disgusting or she would find something little thats messed up and turn it into a big deal. At one time i did want to fight her because of something she said to me but i didn't. And she is always trying to make me look bad whenever there are boys around. Even when i'm with my bf she still trys to make herself look better than me. Do you think I should let him go to her party? I really don't want to hurt her feelings when she is showing off. She just tempts me to tell her off in front of everyone. Sometimes i think she is jelous ofme
2007-02-06 07:41:47 · 6 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, she might be jealous of you, but you can't assume that. You should let your boyfriend do whatever he wants to do, you don't own him. If he knows your situation with this girl, then I would think as a good boyfriend he wouldn't want to go, but that's just my opinion. She might not be jealous of you, but she might life your boyfriend and she's jealous of the relationship that you two have. You need to be aware of her feelings, and don't fight her or tell her off, just be as nice as you can even though I'm sure it's really hard to be nice to someone. If your boyfriend really likes you, he won't care about her, even if she loves him.
2007-02-06 07:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is extremely Jealous of you.. and if your boyfriend loves you, he wont go. Why dont you and him talk it over, and tell him how you feel..and if he loves you he will understand.. and maybe you guys can go out to a movie or something the day of the party. It would be nice that he spends the evening with you, instead of other there.
2007-02-06 07:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by MOON13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should let your bf go so he can have fun but tell him not to flirt with her so that she thinks that she might have a chance! I know that she can be mean sometimes but thats only casue she is jealous of you. When she is mean to you just find something nice to say to her and walk away!!
Just remember to tell your bf not to egg her on.
2007-02-06 07:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-03 19:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by nastasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She IS jealous of you
She sounds like a major boyfriend-stealer.... Something's fishy if she's inviting your boyfriend, but not you.
2007-02-06 07:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not ok.
2007-02-06 07:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋