I am so tired of trying to find that one special guy. I thought I had found him but, I was wrong. I want to be in love. I have been single all of my life. I have tried almost everything. I get out and have a good time but it seems like no guys that I take interest in are interested in anything but just friends. I want something more. I want to know what it feels like to have a guy call you three times a day just to see how you are doing, or who will grab me by the waist and kiss me and tell me they love me. It hurts so much to see my friends in love and me still single...I don't know maybe I'm cursed to walk the earth alone.
2007-02-06 07:33:35 · 8 answers · asked by --[SaMbAm]-- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 18 and what I mean by my whole life is I guess that I have never had a boyfriend...ever...
2007-02-06 07:40:36 · update #1
I can relate to you soooo much.I want to find someone and fall in love again.These days it seems to be an impossible task.I cant find anyone that Id really want to give my heart to.I want to love,but want it to be right and NOT right now.Its frustrating.I miss just sitting close to each other watching movies,her falling asleep in my lap,wrapping myself around her at night,.......Whoever "she" is I wish I could be with her now.This lonliness is painful.Sometimes I feel the same way,that I am destined to be alone. Dont know? I hope you find someone soon because I wouldnt wish the way I feel on my worst enemy.
2007-02-06 07:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your are not cursed it is just a matter of of time you have to wait life is just in the begining and waiting till you meet the best one even after years and one that really really loves you and is interested in you as you and only you no matter what is better than meeting someone early and get hurt and afraid of loving and commitment the rest of your life because you wanted things fast
2007-02-06 15:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by tam d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not cursed, but you are feeling angry over this and people can see that. You have to stop trying so hard and stop looking for it. You might be just looking to hard and you keep over looking the right guy. Be patience sweetie, there is a special guy out there for you,, just wait and see.
2007-02-06 15:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you stop caring about this so much....that is when it will happen. Become independant of the thought of your "dream man". Find what you like to do alone...and do it with passion. You will attract men with this new found attitude....it works...try it!!
2007-02-06 15:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? your whole life? stop trying to find him, you never will. I stopped looking and this man who has contacted me before kept trying to talk to me, and I finally said "ok" and I was terrified to be hurt, scared it was a "dead end" and it turned out to be okay. You will find him, just be you, thats all you can do
2007-02-06 15:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound very desperate....I love the way you use the term "all your life"....what are you 40?
2007-02-06 15:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i could of wrote that
2007-02-06 15:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all your life? are you retirement age? ...even for you there is someone...do not despair...volunteer somewhere...I hope this helps.
2007-02-06 15:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋