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Well i have no clue what is wrong with me. See everyone keeps tellin me that i am beatiful and so do boys. I am 15, blonde hair, no acne, i am 5'3 and skinny but not scary skinny,and I am funny but serouis. So guys what do you think. Like anythin i can improve or what because if i am as beatiful as everyone says how come i don't have a bf. So guys what do ya think.
.............Jen....................
P.S. If some one does say they wanna dae me it is usally that they wanna get in my pants.

2007-02-06 07:33:09 · 19 answers · asked by **[[Jen]]** 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

well, its normal for any girl to think like this, (From a big brother to a little sister) I'm 26.....there are alot of girls out there until the ages of 50+ who will keep asking themselves the same question you are..............if it helps any....and my advice may not be the best advice......but here it goes.......

Just Continue to be yourself, guys who around your age are still going through the "trying to be cool stage" ........Just think about who you are, which you have......and think about what you want...

..I....and I mean MEEE....think that you should have high standards at this moment and maybe later on in life you can loosen up because of your maturity level and all the other guys you are trying to date.........
You sound like a nice girl and I'll be damed if anyone broke your heart .....ya know??......trust me...I have a Lil sis and I feel the same way right now and she's 23.....

Just remember.....don't change yourself just to have someone......and maybe the so called "dorks" are the good guys................Good luck.......remember......*smile* and be yourself =)

2007-02-06 07:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by epine81 1 · 0 0

Well like I said, you may be beautiful but you're attitude could be horrible. You could be conceited, there a number of things that could be wrong with you. We don't know you, so I can't make an assumption on what's wrong with you. When you put yourself out there as someone who is easy, you'll attract men who are only interested in that. You're really to young to be worrying about finding a boyfriend anyway, wait a while and don't be in such a hurry to grow up. Having a boyfriend can make or break you. It's a big responsibility one that maybe you're not ready for. Wait a little while longer, eventually the right one will come along. He may not be in the perfect package but he'll be the one for you. Good luck sweetie!

2007-02-06 15:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0 0

A big part of the problem is that you are only 15, boys at 15 are not always interested in having a girlfriend or are to afraid of girls to talk to them. Boys older than 15 or 16 only want one thing, sex. My advice is to give it time, the right guy will come along that sees you for more than a bed partner.

2007-02-06 15:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0 0

Umm...one reason is that guys are probably too shy or afraid to ask out someone so good looking. The ones that do are the ones that think they are good enough (thats why they only want to get in your pants). I recommend that you find someone you like for how they treat you and then you ask HIM out. Girls usually arent the ones that ask guys out but hey i dont see anything wrong with that. Also, dont feel bad that you dont have a boyfriend, I mean you are young and still got better things to look forward to in life than us guys.

2007-02-06 15:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by CrxK20 2 · 0 0

I think you probably are really cute, maybe not beautiful. The problem is you probably don't have a lot of guys to choose from at your school, and you have really high standards. I think if you go to a big state University you will find some really hot guys there, but it will be tough in HS. Guys in HS are mostly dorks anyway, so you might as well wait, or try to crash some college parties.

2007-02-06 15:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by martin h 6 · 0 0

I think the problem is that many guys think that you are untouchable becuase you are like a goddess to them. The problem is not with you. Guys that know they are hot stuff think they can get any girl and sleep with her anytime. If you want a guy that likes you for who you are and not for what you have then maybe you should pay more attenrion to the guys that seem to shy away from you. And although most guys only think about sex, there are some guys who will stay away from it if that is your wish. Again, there are very few, but they exist.

2007-02-06 15:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jaguar 2 · 0 0

I can't see anything wrong with your description. At your age, a lot of boys aren't interested in girl friends due to shyness, hormones, finances, self-confidence, et al. Until they come around, don't hesitate to ask some shy boy if he might be interested in going to a movie or something (that is if your and his parents are up to it.)

2007-02-06 15:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Scott K 7 · 0 0

all 15 year old boys want to get into someone's pants. wait until you are older to date, even then, watch out. men are dogs. Tell them all about how cute you pet cat is, then pull out all your photo albums, and introduce then to your mom. if they stick around, they might be worth something. If that fails, make an application for dating you and force them to fill it out before you'll even set foot out the door with them. good luck

2007-02-06 15:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jessycat 2 · 0 0

Apparently, as much as people tell you that you're beautifully, you still need it said more and more.

Become at ease with yourself. Figure out what you want and need in another person; and that's what you have to stay on the look out for. Every one is going to want your Jewel. It must be given to only the, right, special person for it to be special itself.

2007-02-06 15:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0 0

Get a personality...and a good one. Your appearance is not enough. If you only rely on your looks to get noticed, then you will always be surrounded by guys who only want to get in your pants.

2007-02-06 15:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by Slay Specialist 3 · 1 0

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