my boyfriend of 2 years is so busy working out that he never has any time to spend with me. everytime i ask him if he can come see me or if i can come to his house he gets all mad and is like im never going to get a football scholarship if i dont work out and im glad he wants to go to college and everything but we are only 16 and it wont hurt him to miss one day of working out. wat should i do?
2007-02-06 07:28:01 · 15 answers · asked by cutie with tha bootie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I know what it's like to have a loved one on football. You seldom see them. If you love him support him. If you just can't then you need to re-think what is best for you.....this is a tough one...so, don't do anything until you have given it alot of thought, OK? You can't take back words already "out there"...good luck!
2007-02-06 07:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Poptart 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say this but it seems that he may have lost interest in your relationship and may be seeing someone else if he gets mad when you want to see him, thats how guys think they can make women drop that subject and leave him alone with it. if he has alwayse been an avid football player and working out but still made time to see you and all of the sudden it is diminishing then there must be someone else, plus he is young with allot going for him so girls must see that as well and have cought his attention. I say have a talk with him, do not be demanding or obsessive or else he will avoid the TALK, and ask if there is still fire in your relationship, let him know you feel left out and just need to be reassured.
2007-02-06 07:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by claudr_30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like he doesnt really have any time for you. And if thats the case then you minus well let the relationship go. If a guy really likes you then you will know it. He will make time out of no time. He will let you know that he is really feeling you and wants to be with you. If he would rather work out all day and not spend any time with you then I seriously see a problem with that. Im sure you would make time for him and this is not a one person relationship so i would just let him know how you feel. If he still feels like he would rather work out then spend at least some time with you then you minus well call it a quits.
2007-02-06 07:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by babi_gurl513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls need time with there man. We need time to connect. To cuddle. To talk about pointless things that are going on in our lifes jsut to get them out. We need them there to keep us company and let us know that there are there for us no matter what. Even when we really dont need them, we just want someone to bum around with in pj's. But honey, how are you getting any of that if he works out all the time. I'm sure he's a great guy and I would be proud of him to. But tell him how you feel. How you don't expect him to drop his priority's but how you would like to at least be one. He'll understand. And if he gets mad, tell him to at least appreciate the fact that your honest enough with him to talk about how your feeling and not jsut blow up or leave him. Still not getting through to him. Make him promise to have you and him days. I used to do that. Every tuesday see each other. Then every sunday go see a movie. Wasn't the best but hey it was worth it for him. Let me know how it works out with you guys. And listen if he still doesn't give you the attention you deserve. Go find better. Your to young to not be happy. Trust me, been there - done that. Good luck.
2007-02-06 07:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by beautybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, "Well even if you DO get that scholarship, I won't be here to celebrate with." Act all dramatic and if he chases you, he really does care, if not, let him go. Find someone who WILL miss one day of "working out" to be with his girlfriend.
2007-02-06 07:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something's up.................he's not telling you something because i know he's not always working out......one day ask if you can work out with him and if he says no then you got to make a move like find out what's really going on..........and shouldn't he be working out in football practice
2007-02-06 07:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by sexsired 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the ROIDS (steroids, not hemroids). It makes guys shrivel up and become moody. Tell him to lay off the juice.
If you fell like your always coming in second then dump him.
2007-02-06 07:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by matt_archbold2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, and do what he does, focus on your needs and then whatever time you have left, that's the time you will then dedicate in someone else. To love someone is to first love yourself.
2007-02-06 07:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy this book titled-He's Just Not That Into You
2007-02-06 07:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he can't make time for you, then you're not going to make time for him, and break up with him if he doesn't want to see you still.
2007-02-06 07:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋