Where are all the good guys? It seems like all I find are jerks. I mean they are great in the beginning, and then I see thier true colors...I see all of my friends starting to settle down with these great guys...where is mine??? I am a pretty girl, I work, I go to school, I have a great personality...why can't I find a good guy?
2007-02-06 07:26:58 · 16 answers · asked by spoiledrottenchica1987 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what? Relationships are hard. There are a lot of good guys out there, but what happens is that many end up not being "your" good guy. Often, you will find that these jerks make pretty okay friends, but terrible boyfriends. It is very hard to find the right guy for the right girl. There are a lot of factors that go into making things work, schedules, friends, age, interests, timing. I don't know exactly why that is, but don't get too discouraged and don't give up yet. Take the time you need to get to know the guy better before you decide to become boyfriend and girlfriend. This sometimes is easier said than done, but what you will find is the guy, who will really love you through good and bad will be the one, who will wait for you...and be there for you. It may take some time, but stay positive and laugh off the jerks. You will find your true best friend and great guy!!!!
2007-02-06 07:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Trying 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u just have take a break and wait for some 1 that is a sweetheart and is a total hottie come up to u. i think i found the right guy so it is okay if it doesn't happen in the next few days or so just give it a chance and u will find some body for u to be with for the rest of ur life.
2007-02-06 15:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good guys are out there and asking the same question you are, "why can't I find a good woman?" Sometimes when you try to hard to find someone, you never do, maybe take a break and see what happens.
2007-02-06 15:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it has been proven that a person attracts a specific type of person to them. If you do some research, you may find what it is about you that is attracting these jerks and correct it.
2007-02-06 15:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can have my man. He's a good guy, but I hardly ever get to see him too much. Come to New York City. There are a lot of good guys here.
2007-02-06 15:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because all the good guys you meet, you turned down as jsut wanting to be friends.
2007-02-06 15:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by RMS4EVER 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well these are the kind of men you're attracting so maybe you need to look at yourself again. Maybe you can't attract any good men because you're a jerk and you're no good. Look at yourself. Birds of a feather flock together, that doesn't only go for friends but for the people you attract as well. Whatever you decide you can't have mine, but good luck anyway!
2007-02-06 15:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
you'll find him...you'll see. it just takes time...you should get involved in social groups where you know the guys have similar interests as you. i found my good guy in high school, i just got lucky =)
poets and singers are great! i don't have one, but i know many single guys who fit your description, so they are out there...
2007-02-06 15:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a look mane ya know who i am , the bad thats who!yous cockaroaches
2007-02-06 15:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by wooba goomba green teeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm here baby...... If you are in San Jose,CA gime a call.
You better be of legal age though :)
2007-02-06 15:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋