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There is this guy that all my friends say that he likes me a whole lot and he even told me that he likes me. But whenever I go and hang out with him, it is like I am not there. Everyone says that he is really shy and to give it time. But I want to know for sure right now if he really likes me. What do I do???

2007-02-06 07:07:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

24 answers

Well, you stated that he's even told you that he likes you- what more proof do you want/need?!

2007-02-06 07:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 1 0

The main thing to find out is he really sure about liking you, you are wondering if he does since he told you that he do but when you hang out with him it feels the opposite. You got to find ways were you and him can have a conversation without his shyness being in the way and see were you and him are at in trying to start an relationship but he needs to tighten up and put his shyness behind him if he wants a relationship. The only way to find out is you gotta stand up because his shyness aint going to let you know so you got to have some backbone and find out for yourself and see if you and him are on the same page. If not just move on. Good Luck:)

2007-02-06 07:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0 0

Well, it's time for you to take the bull by the horns, here. He may be shy but if you want to know what's going on in his head, you're going to have to take control of the situation. Find a time when no one else is around. Tell him you're really confused by something. Ask him why, since he's already told you he likes you, does he ignore you when you're together? You're going to have to go out on a limb and tell him that you like him, too, and wouldn't mind spending more time with him but not if he's going to act like you're invisible. And, since you're being straight with him, you'd really appreciate it if he'd be straight with you. Then see what happens. You're just going to have to be prepared for whatever the answer is. If he says he's not interested in you "in that way", tell him thanks for his honesty and let him know you won't waste any more time on him--and don't.

2007-02-06 07:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0 0

make the first move. For the vast majority of guys the fear of rejection is so great that they would rather not ask at all than feel humiliated if the girl says that she's "not interested" or "only likes him as a friend". You know he likes you so just go ahead and kiss him.

2007-02-06 07:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by rmxer 3 · 0 0

In the case of a shy man, you should expect that you will be directing most of the conversation. And you will likely need to initiate it. Don't interrogate him, but just try to get to know him, let him get to know you too and the communication will flow much better. When he's comfortable around you, he'll probably start to direct more of the conversation himself.

2007-02-06 07:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cato 4 · 0 0

The first thing you want to do, if you want to know for shore ask him, and tell him whats up and how you feel. I had a situation just like this...and guess what happened, that person stopped liking me, because they said i didnt open up but i felt like they were acting to laid back around there friends and they were not giving me the ok that they really liked me, so i kind of played it cool, and treated them like all my other friends, and in the process we both were waiting for one another to break the ice, so in the end they just were like i wasnt there type because i was acting like i liked them, but i was waiting for an ok from them, because they were not acting like they liked me. So words of advice, talk to him, chit chat with him, and if you want just tell him how you feel, and how you trying to get to know him better especially since we both like eachother right? make convo no matter if its friendly convo....remember this slogan " Do something, Never do nothing"

2007-02-06 07:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by lefteye w 2 · 0 0

Talk to him hunny, no use trying to be or look for a phycic. Ask him what he wants (relationship, friendship..w/e) and what you two should plan on doing about it. If hes just messin with your mind or not giving you answers thats not fair.
you gotta let him know how you feel.

goodluck sweetie

2007-02-06 07:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Rori 2 · 0 0

if the chemistry's there then it's there if it's gonna happen it will but don't force it because us guys don't like pushy girls, if it's down to his shyness then just hold out a bit longer untill he feels more comfortable but if he's just not making an effort then look for someone who's more willing to make something happen

2007-02-06 07:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Andy J 2 · 0 0

Honestly, the best thing to do is act "aloof" (as though you don't care one way or the other)...be friendly, but not overly so...laugh alot, pay attention to your friends...
and remember my mantra: Guys always want what they think they cannot have...behave accordingly...

2007-02-06 07:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Toots 6 · 0 0

call him up and ask him or just simply ask him over the computer....the computer loosens tention betwwen to people because of the fact you cant see the others face and there expreshions and what there thinking. try that and see or you will just have to wait it out like your friends said!!

2007-02-06 07:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by peace love & lipgloss 2 · 0 0

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