It would depend on the guy. me personally, I would love to find an easy going, warm and sweetnatured woman, but at the same time, I don't want her to make it too easy or hard on me to get her. Don't know if that makes any sense at all.
2007-02-06 07:09:44
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answered by H.B.K. 2 4
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Obviously there are two answers to this one. This is coming from a guy who has been with both. A challenging woman can be intimidating to a man. She'll make you think a lot (ex. when is my phone gonna ring) She's generally carefree. That begs the question - how can I win her over? It takes a lot of effort - btw - I'm with one now. It's well worth the effort because they are so giving in the long run. Okay now about the easy going...... . She is too passive. She tends to give a longer "leash" (no offense) Snugly but has a certain insecurity about her. Eventually they both get posessive. Just be yourself. Hope this helps.
2007-02-06 07:23:53
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answered by kscape2002 2
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Warm, EASY GOING and sweet are a definate plus. Who wants to be with a challenging woman after a hard days work??
2007-02-06 07:10:21
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answered by Fernie 1
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It all depends on the man's own personality. Some men are needy and like a sweet woman who can be there for them and care for them.
Some are strong people who like to be challenend because they see it as an intimate competition to better themselves in their relationship.
You can simply have the mix in one woman, a sweet woman gentle and caring but who is smart and strong willed and would challenge her man intellectually and spiritually.
Some men just cannot handle some sides of women. It really all depends on their nature and upbringing.
2007-02-06 07:10:59
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answered by GuyNextDoor 4
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Challenging women in my opinion are not worth the effort. I am not looking for a girl that is uptight and hard to communicate with. I'll take the sweet natured woman any day.
2007-02-06 07:12:30
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answered by DB 3
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It really depends on the man. And I think it depends on what you mean by challenging. The way you put it, challenging means hard to deal with, and I'm not sure who would be enticed by that. But intellectually and emotionally challenging someone is a good thing.
2007-02-06 07:11:31
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answered by Patrick 1
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Men like both. You can still be challenging, but easy going. It all depends on the situation, subject, etc. that you are in. Pick your challenging ways wisely, and don't be too easy going when a challenge is needed.
2007-02-06 07:22:57
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answered by Darius W 3
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Men aren't turned out of a factory. They are all different. They have different values and perspectives, and very different experiences.
So the only reasonable answer that can be given to your question is that some men like one, some like another, and some prefer something completely different. That's just the way people are!
If you're trying to figure out how to behave in order to attract men, I'd advise just being yourself. Even if you could act a certain way and draw attention, would you want to have to maintain a pretense for the rest of your life just to keep that man? It's not worth it. You want someone who likes you for who you are... and the best way to get that is not to play at being someone who you aren't!
2007-02-06 07:10:22
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answered by Doctor Why 7
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Challenge me how? If you mean in a positive way, yes! A woman who can challenge me on an intellectual basis is definitely more interesting to me than some blond barbie doll.
If you mean challenge me in a negative way, like constantly questioning my character or values or morels, then HELL NO!
2007-02-06 07:14:37
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answered by Anonymous
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I like a challenging woman, I like nothing easy.
2007-02-06 07:10:42
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answered by Anonymous
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