What am I doing wrong? I did some research on this sexual technique to try new things with my man. I read that it is supposed to give your man the most outrageous, unforgettable orgasm.
We've tried three times now and have been unsuccessful. Any tips?
2007-02-06 07:03:49 · 7 answers · asked by Nunya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's awesome that you have a guy that wants you to put your finger or something else up his butt.
Prostate stimulation is the best.
Us men do'nt have much going for us without it. But, we men were raised that only fags and girlie boys stick things in our a**. Wrong.......If a man is willing to stimulate his womans g-spot amd outer vagina to climax. Then why is it a bad thing for a woman to stimulate her man to climax using the same procedures. (sorry bit of a rant there)
My advice, vibrators and dildos work 100x's better than the finger. Run with it. You and your man will thank each other later. Best sex you will ever have is when there are no barriers/walls in bed with you.
2007-02-06 07:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by wedged15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are on top of your man, going for a ride... put a small vibrator up his butt to stimulate the prostate while you do your thing. It will be the most explosive orgasm he ever had. Trust me on this one.
2007-02-07 07:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never done it, but I've read that you're supposed to stick your finger in there up to the main knuckle in your finger, and then curl it in a "come here" gesture.. but that's all I know, there's no real experience with it... I've read on cosmo's website if you're interested...
2007-02-06 15:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prostate stimulation is so much easier when performed with a dildo. When I had a problem, my Dr suggested that I come to the office daily , do it myself or have my wife do it for me. My wife could barely get her little fingers far enough without putting her whole hand up my butt. We tried a couple of different dildos. The important thing was that it had a smooth round head that could massage without banging into it. A long smooth dildo reached but wasn't strong enough to massage the prostate. As it turned out, a dildo(not big) that was shaped like a penis worked the best. The tapered head of the penis easily penetrated my butt and slid in deep. It's smooth head rubbed up against the prostate and could actually push fluids out. The first times I did it , I did it myself so I knew what I was doing. My wife watched , then tried doing it to me. That was both easier and a lot more fun too. The Dr. explained that it is normal to enjoy the feeling of being anally penetrated along with the feelings that the prostate massage offers which could lead to a "Prostate Orgasm" Even after having my prostate massaged and oozing *** for a while, a prostate orgasm can build and give me an ORGASM that feels better and is more intense than any ever experienced along with a Super Ejaculation. There is nothing wrong with enjoying it. It is a healthy prostate draining experience that every man should enjoy on a regular basis.
Having my wife do it to me has been very, very intense. While it is always a pleasurable physical experience, sharing this experience with your wife is emotionally strengthening.
As advised by the Dr., my wife wanted to do it to me, for my own good. She had milked me as she massaged my prostate with a dildo. As she hit the right spot, the head of the dildo massaged the prostate and pushed *** from me, without orgasm. After we had done it for a while, she admitted that she also found it Sexually Exciting to penetrate my *** with a rubber penis.
2014-09-08 08:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on it. Some guys are just not into it!
2007-02-06 16:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just toss his salad. No digits.
2007-02-06 15:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by SEAHAWK 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
E-mail me and we will talk.Your willingness to please your man is refreshing.
2007-02-06 15:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋